He is always like c'mon don't be a sissy just do it i am like NO No No its not working HELP!!!
2007-04-02 07:29:59 · 33 answers · asked by emily c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What's too far for you? And, does HE know what this point is?
I see couples, time and time again, go thru situations just like these w/o coming to any good conclusion, just because they didn't know how to properly communicate with each other!
If you want to stay with this guy, then you NEED to communicate yourself to him w/o reserve! You may think that telling exactly how you feel may seem a bit harsh, but the Truth is the Truth! And, you should never skirt around it in order to make the other person feel comfortable, if you are not comfortable yourself.
Let him know your feelings, and tell him that if he truly does carefor you and respect you, he will listen to your feelings and agree to be a man that can make you comfortable with your own feelings.
If he cannot do this, then he is not the right guy for you.
2007-04-02 07:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 6⤋
Personally I don't prefer guys. Some of it has to do with the fact that even when they don't realize it, they can be cocky and really pushy.
If you're saying "No" and it doesn't work the first time, then that would be enough for me. However, I know that you probably like having him around or enjoy calling him and love the fact that you can say "Yeah, I have a boyfriend." That's just glamour...take a step out of your comfort zone and really LOOK at the situation that's going on.
2007-04-03 06:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by Nivens_alphaBitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have taken the relationship too far!!
The day he started pressuring and bullying you should have been the day the relationship ended. Keep the respect you have for yourself because, I can tell you he has no respect for you.
There are men out there that will treat you with the respect you deserve and not pressure you to do things you should not be doing.
Get rid of him before you let him bully you into something you will regret later.
Feel no regret in your decision, feel only pride that you can be strong and stand up for yourself. Respect begins with self respect.
2007-04-02 07:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by Mee-Maw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously this boy does not respect your decision to say NO to an awkward situation. If he really loved you he would respect your decision not to. All he's thinking about right now is about the party going on in his pants. I say leave him and find someone new, or understand that if you want to stay with him you'll have to give into what he wants. That may mean giving up something very valuable to you. What choice are you willing to make? ......me personally, I would leave him. I deserve a better guy and so do YOU!
2007-04-02 07:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by redheaded beauty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I am in love with a boy but I scard to do annything. And he tyrs to kiss me and stuff but I don't dear to kiss him back. I've never been in love before so I'm kind of new at this stuff but... I know I have to do something soon. Mabye you should try to talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel about it. Tell him you are not ready to take your relationship to the second level. Mabye hil understand how you feel.
2007-04-02 07:35:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that if he loves u and wants to be with u that he has to respect the fact that your not ready for that stage. If he says OK, and every thing is alright.Let it go, but don't forget it. If he says know and get mad then tell him to leave because he is not worth your time if he's going to act like that.
this is from me to u.
he has to respect u to be with u. U are to nice ans sweet to let him push u around. OK
good luck
2007-04-03 01:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by honey.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up and get as far away from him as you can. boys/men that really love you will respect your body, your feelings, and would NEVER try to force you to do something you don't want to.
if you're afraid breaking up will be too hard on you (or him) emotionally...break it off anyway, then find a close family member or friend to lean on until you feel better :)
good luck! and check out the source i listed for more issues on dating, relationships, and families
2007-04-02 07:35:31 · answer #7 · answered by G is for Grover 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to back off. You shouldn't feel intimidated or pressured by your own boyfriend. Tell him if all he wants is sex he can go buy it. Do not let him pressure you into something you don't want to do. He should be supportive and concerned about your feelings if he truly cares about you.
2007-04-02 07:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not respecting your wishes by pressuring you to do things you do not wish to do. That's not love. You have to be a strong woman and just say "No." If he continues, then you need to break it off with him and only date guys that will respect your feelings.
2007-04-02 07:34:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's pushing you like that, he doesn't respect you. He doesn't respect your wishes, he doesn't respect you as a person, he just wants into your pants. Break up with him and find somebody else. There are thousands of men out there, and plenty of them are better than this jerk.
2007-04-02 07:33:38 · answer #10 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋