i have problems with my family because they dont like my boyfriend but i belive i may be falling in love but my parents think not that it's fake teen love how can i prove to my parents that i am in love
2007-04-02 07:17:07 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately, you cant prove that to anyone. Ask them why they don't like him, they may have a point. At the very least, it may give him some in site as to what not to do around them.
2007-04-02 07:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by Joy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem with these situations is that none of us "answerers" do not know you or your boyfriend. We can't determine why your parents might feel this way toward your boyfriend. Either way, you're going to have to go through with it because if it works out, then good for you, have a good time. If it doesn't, then it's all a learning experience and you're now that much better for having went through with it. Explain this to your parents that you have to decide whether he is the right guy on your own.
2007-04-02 14:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by Nick P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make out or "snuggle" when you're around your parents. Leave that for when they aren't around, because they might be thinking that you think you're in love just because your boyfriend is a good kisser or soemthing. But it worries me a bit that your parents don't like your boyfriend. Although they can be annoying, parents usually know what's best just because they've already been though it. I'd suggest that you talk to them and ask them what it is that they don't like about your boyfriend. Make sure you keep your emotions in check, though. You know that they're probably going to say something that you disagree about at first, but instead of yelling, just think about it seriously... They could be right. Good luck!
2007-04-02 14:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by swimmer2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To prove to your parents that you are ready to deal with the relationship, you have to show how mature you are. You will not be able to convince them of the intensity of your love. They don't doubt the intensity, that is what concerns them. They are afraid you will be consumed by the passion and not take care of business like education and your future.Two adults that are in love and respectful of themselves and each other, are also respectful to those around them. Don't sneak around. Try to find ways for you to spend time with your parents and your boyfriend. If he really loves you, he will want to help you and will be willing to work with you and your parents. It is all about respect and honesty! If you both make an effort to be respectful and honest with your folks, it will help them trust your choices. Who knows, they may even get to like him by seeing the things you see in him!
As soon as you start sneaking around and going against your parents wishes, they will see you as acting like a child. That will push them to clamp down and try to pull the two of you apart. How you behave now will set the stage of how they will treat you! Good luck!!
2007-04-02 14:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by ahzreem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will only tell if its true love. Your parents are older and wiser, but that doesn't make them right all the time. Why don't they like your boyfriend is my question? If something is meant to be, you can't do anything to prevent it from happening. You don't have to prove something that you feel already exist, let nature take its course, and hopefully in time, you will see and they will see.
2007-04-02 14:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by Iwannanewcar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first question to you is Why does your parent dislike him? Your parents are there to protect you and are only looking out for your best interest. Now if you are in love with him, then talk to your parents about it. Find out why they don't like him. Then you might want to ask your parents to have dinner at home with him to show them what you fell in love with. 2nd question, is your boyfriend in love with you? If so, then invite him over and ask him to put his best foot forward, if not, then there's nothing to prove to your parents.
2007-04-02 14:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
most of the time when parents think like that its cuz the are "losing their little girl" what i say is stay with your bf, if you two are as close as you say then stick it out, ur parents will come to realize that their little girl isn't so little anymore and is falling in love like they did once upon a time.
wish you luck
2007-04-02 14:20:58 · answer #7 · answered by lilkitty4eva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your parents if he can come around for dinner one night, maybe then they'll get to know him and like him better. If you believe you are in love then you are in love. Nobody knows what you are thinking but you... but parents are usually right.
2007-04-02 14:24:42 · answer #8 · answered by Ben R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give them time. Don't force your boyfriend on them. And also take into consideration why they don't like your boyfriend. Maybe they have some legitimate reasons that you should consider.
Regardless, don't rush into anything with him that will break up you and your family. Given time, they'll warm up to him if they see you and he are genuinely happy together.
2007-04-02 14:21:33 · answer #9 · answered by kevness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not reely sure this will work but if he has a little bit of money when your parents arent around ask him to invite you and your parents but he does have to pay but if he doesnt have alot of money tell him youll pay him back and just have a great night. but this doesnt always work because guys dont always have their own money to pay for thier girlfriends whole family but it works most of the time
2007-04-02 14:25:18 · answer #10 · answered by dogluvatoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋