I met this guy and we went out on 2 dates. Our first date went really well, we both had so much fun. During the week we either texted each other or talked on the phone. We met for the second time last Saturday. I never got the impression that he is not interested. We didn't kiss, but there were occasional touches, hands, shoulder... (not for long though). We spent almost 8 hours together on Saturday withought even realizing what the time was. He even said "wow, it's already 7! that's a pretty good indication". it's Monday now, he didn call me on Sunday, I sent him an email and thanked him for the day, no replies, he usually gets back to me as soon as he gets the message or email, I really like this guy and now I'm confused. what just happened???:(
is he going to call me again?or Should I call him?
2007-04-02 03:59:32 · 15 answers · asked by JM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should just wait and see if he got your message. Maybe he's having a busy week or maybe he just doesn't want to see you again. Give it a week and if he doesn't call or anything just forget him.
2007-04-02 04:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Texting After Second Date
2017-01-15 13:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK. That doesn't mean anything! He is taking his time. You however should not be so jumpy! Try not to smother him. Be realistic now. It was just 2 dates. Not marriage or engagement. You are both testing the waters right now. He may not jump right in. As a woman I have done the same thing!! It's hard not to want to start making plans, setting up life. The idea is always in our heads. It' smother nature. You must learn to slow it down relax, go on with the norm. If it is suppose to happen God will make sure it does!!! Don't make yourself miserable till then!!!!
2007-04-02 04:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DON'T keep calling or emailing him. You'll only scare him off. Give him a chance to contact you.
If you haven't heard from him in a week, then you could contact him and ask if wants to do something casual (a street fair or something) during the day, or just hang out. You will know by his response to this whether he wants to continue with the relationship.
2007-04-02 04:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by pattyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down, maybe something happened, or something came up. We men have a logical system of decision making. And when it comes to what needs to be done, calling a woman to make sure that she doesn't doubt her own womanhood or ability to make an adequate girlfriend is pretty far down on the list. Sorry, we just don't think about those things. The car needs brakes, I need pizza, and the game is on are all things that need to be done right now. The car will crash, my belly will grumble, and the game will be over tomorrow. But you will still be whereever it is you are. Give him a bit, send another E-mail tomorrow. I wouldn't worry. Such is the first step with putting up with us. :)
2007-04-02 04:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by Rhyno 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT CALL HIM! You do not want to appear desperate, because you are not, and you have other things to do to keep you busy. He is probably busy himself. Sometimes, because we have found someone we really like, we spend too much time too soon together causing the relationship to move too fast. Many times this ends disastrously. I have read that "if he is that into you...he will call". If he is not, you definitely do not want to force him to pretend. Do not sit by the phone, do things that will take your mind off him. Just relax and take care of you! Have a great day.
2007-04-02 05:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by Sage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have emailed him since the date, I would wait to hear from him. He may have gotten busy with something unexpected, but if he misses you, I would think he would contact you in the next few days. If not by Wednesday, I might start to wonder what is going on and maybe call him. Best of luck to you!
2007-04-02 04:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by Christi D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him a few days. He has other things going on in his life. If you continue to email or call, you will come off like a needy girl, which will definitely drive him off. Relax and see if he calls. After a full week, then give him a ring.
2007-04-02 04:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by I See You 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him. If he really likes you he will be calling. If he doesn't like you then you are better off now without really getting hurt. I have a hunch though that he will call or email. Good luck.
2007-04-02 04:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by redflite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are so weird.
DO NOT call/email/text him again.
Let him do it. It's not like he just "forgot" about the 8 hours you spent together.
Let him come to you.
And if he doesn't, on to the next one.
Good luck!
2007-04-02 04:02:52 · answer #10 · answered by Mimi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋