Here is the situation, I met this guy few weeks ago,we have an instant connection.we chat for hours almost everyday.exchange text messages but suddenly he stopped communicating with me. I dont remember doing or saying bad things to him.Im just curious...
why guys are like that?when they know u like them.they will just disappear.ANy advice..
P.S. i sent him offline messages for 3 consecutive days and sent him sms..but still he dont reply..I dont want him to think that I am clingy?just wondering why suddenly he stopped contacting me.AND IS IT TURN OFF FOR GUYS IF THE LADIES IS ALWAYS ASKING HOW U ARE?
THanks >>> I really MISS HIM!
2007-04-02 03:36:37 · 15 answers · asked by vanesa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not send him any more messages or try to contact him again. If he was busy and you are bugging him, this may be why he hasn't returned your messages. If he is really interested, he will make the next move, if not then he isn't worth your time.
2007-04-02 03:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is not a turn off its actually something guys really like if they are mature enough. It shows that you are actually interested in him. As for why he stopped messaging you could be many reasons. When was the last time you saw him. Maybe he lost his phone, maybe he has been busy. The only thing you really can do is wait unless there is a chance you are going to see him. Then you can talk to him about it. If i were you i would just stop messaging him all together and let things chill. If he is really interested in you he will come back. If its only been a few days i would not fret.
2007-04-02 10:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by lethalx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, just stop with the generalising. It's killing me.
This ONE guy could be an asshole and has already found someone better. He could have been scared off as you suspect. He could have gone on holiday. He could have any reason, nobody here can give you that.
My suggestion however, is to leave one last message and then leave it. If he comes back with a reason then your worries are over. If he doesn't, your better off without...just move on. You found a sour grape.
As for the turn on? Depends on the person. I for one would like the attention, someone else might think you were strange and clingy.
2007-04-02 10:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you keep sending messages constantly, that is a turn off. It gets annoying. The guy is probably LESS likely to reply if you keep doing that.
Do this - stop contacting him. Don't call, don't text, don't IM, nothing. If he doesn't contact you within say 3-5 days, then you can probably know he's not interested anymore. But save yourself the heartache of trying to reach someone who doesn't want to be reached.
2007-04-02 10:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by kevness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he met someone new and if he really did like you he would have find a way to call or get a hold of you. So that being said it's time to move on and find someone that will appreciate the attention your giving them.
2007-04-02 10:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by Rusty Shackleford 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me, it's never a good idea to continue communicating with a guy who is no longer interested. Let him be and move on. If he was interested with you, he would've found ways to return back your SMS and calls. He's not worth it at all.
2007-04-02 10:40:52 · answer #6 · answered by Leilyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i do have the same experience you facing now, what i always think is that girl did not reply me, mainly because she do not really like me. so as for you, maybe try cooling off for awhile, maybe get back to him maybe a week later? if still the ignore, maybe just wait till he contact you than...
2007-04-02 10:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by momotea86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be contacting him too much and he feels suffocated by it. Or, hate to say it, but he may have met someone new. Just give him some space for now.
2007-04-02 10:43:41 · answer #8 · answered by asldfkjdfj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not a turn off --- in fact for me its wonderful that the lady is interested enough to want to contact me ---- i would suggest he has decided that someone else would be better to know --- its not anything you did its all him ---- best wishes
2007-04-02 10:44:29 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down and give the guy some space. he's probably feeling overwelmed by you. this is why he's not texting you. that or something in his life may have had a drastic change.
2007-04-02 10:39:43 · answer #10 · answered by M!sta Carter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋