But they were the ones that owed me an apology because they took advantage of the situation. I passed out first and then threw up. nobody bothered to help me clean up or get me moved somewhere else. Instead while I was passed out, they "got back at me" by smearing wedding cake all over my face, put a microphone up to my mouth so everyone could laugh at how loud I was snoring, and took bubble favors and proceded to blow them in my face in hopes they would land in my mouth. Would you ever do something like that if I was at your wedding? THEY OWED ME AN APOLOGY, NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND!! Here is some advice for you brides, if you don't want people to act that way, DON'T SERVE ALCOHOL!!!
2007-04-02 03:28:42 · 25 answers · asked by Megan S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
No one twisted your arm and made you get so drunk you passed out and threw up at someones wedding. They did not behave like adults but, you should have refrained from alcohol if you can't control yourself. I did not have alcohol at my wedding but only because my wife and I don't drink. If you were at my wedding and were showing signs of inebriation, I would have someone escort you home.
2007-04-02 04:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by dadof7n2001 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow.
To directly answer the question "would you ever do somethig like this if I was at your wedding?" Simply, no. I would have security escort you OUT of my wedding into a cab (and yes, if you serve alcohol, you generally have to have security hired).
You have no business behaving with such little class. None. As a member of the bridal party, you were chosen as closest friends and family of the couple, and that's how you choose to honor them on their special day? I think it's disgraceful.
Personally, I think everyone involved was horribly childish, immature and irresponsible. If that were my wedding, I'd be livid with the entire bridal party.
Look, I realize that everyone who drinks has occasionally drinks too much. But the fact reamains that **YOU** made the conscious choice to consume enough alcohol to throw up all over yourself and pass out. I don't see any part of this story that includes anyone holding you against your will and pouring vodka down your throat.
You are ultimately responsible for your own actions. **YOU** put yourself in a situation where someone could "get back" at you. No one is responsible for that BUT you. And no one "owes" you anything. Sorry.
2007-04-02 13:30:28 · answer #2 · answered by sylvia 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should apologize to the bride and groom. If you cannot tolerate alcohol you should not have drank or should have drank in moderation. You were a member of the wedding party and therefore had a responsibility to the bride and her husband. This position was given to you out of friendship. You had responsibilities that I am sure you did not carry out. If you have a problem with alcohol seek counselling. After all something much worse could have happened, like date rape. You might also consider an apology to the bride and grooms parents as well.
2007-04-02 10:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by Lynda 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You might not want to hear this, but you are the one who needs to apologize. It was not your wedding day it was theirs an you got drunk and embarrassed them. They probably "got back at you" to try to make it seem less embarrassing for them. If my maid of honor passed out drunk (which she NEVER would) I would be humiliated.
People should not stop serving alcohol because some people cant handle it, those people should know better then to drink so much on such a beautiful occasion - it is just common courtesy.
I really think you should apologize, put yourself in the brides shoes.
Either way , I hope it all works out for you .
2007-04-02 10:38:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 1⤋
Look Megan/Lucy whatever you want to call yourself today (tomorrow are you going to come in and be a Mary and a Wendy the next day until someone is sympathetic to you?) The bottom line is that YOU WERE WRONG HERE. You created the situation for yourself. Unless someone slipped you a "mickey" which I can totally see you saying next, then there is no excuse. (And honestly, thats not even really an excuse because again it was your own fault for taking your eyes off your drink.)
You are NOT going to get anyone to agree with you.
Apologize to your friends for your bad behavior and hope that they will still be your friend. Because I'll be honest with you, I wouldnt be your friend anymore, you had no consideration for the bride, why in the world would she have any consideration for you. And my true guess is that the way YOU acted was not an isolated incident, it was probably the cherry on top of the "Megan/Lucy" drama sundae that is yor life. The fact that you have any friends baffles me.
2007-04-02 10:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Wow, you're lucky thats all they did. If it was my wedding I would have pretty ticked off and probably would have done worse. They made the best of a totally crappy situation. Owe you an apology?? I think not.
If you dont want to throw up, pass out and have an A$$$ made of yourself perhaps you shouldnt drink even if it is being served...........
What a sloppy drunk pig friend you are. I hope your friend has better and classier friends than you!
2007-04-02 10:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by his temptress 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
It's just life...... both parties just need to laugh it off get over it.
And Wow, are you 5??!! Don't blame your action on the fact there was Alcohol there.... your a big girl and can make your own decisions about how much you drink. I mean is it's Fords problem that they make cars and you ran over people being reckless??? Well, if they didn't make cars, there would be no accidents?? Just grow up- you both were wrong and stand up to your mistakes and MAYBE they would appoligize.
2007-04-02 12:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You owe eachother an apology! Yes, you were wrong to get that drunk at the wedding. You need to learn to control yourself when you drink or at least find yourself a good drinking buddy who will take care of you haha. What your friends did was immature and absolutely meant to be hurtful towards you. I would stop talking to them if I were you or you know, get them back. So, you got drunk and it was inappropriately so, but your friends are cold bitches.
2007-04-02 11:07:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Amazing.
I find it amazing how you seem to take absolutely no responsibility for your actions what so ever. Yes, they served alcohol. But its entirely up to you to control your intake. Just because there is liquor, that doesnt mean that you have to get yourself falling down drunk. Nobody held you down and forced you too drink to excess. You did that all on your own. Maybe what they did after that was kinda mean, but you put yourself in that position. You wanna be thought of as a responsible, mature adult? Learn to drink responsibly. Know your limits. But my guess, you already do and went beyond that anyway. So, who's fault is it, really?
2007-04-02 10:40:21 · answer #9 · answered by JC 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
First off why did you drink so much? This is a wedding not a kegger. You could have controled your drinking while at the wedding. Infact you SHOULD have. Shame on you for acting like that on your friends big day. You got exactly what you deserved.
2007-04-02 10:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by hisgirl 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋