If you said to the person you're in a relationship with "I really like you to the point where I might have feelings of love for you", and he responded enthusiastically with "that's good!!" how would you interpret it? would you think that they felt the same?
2007-04-02 02:49:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO. IF THEY DID THEY WOULD HAVE SAID IT BACK.
2007-04-02 02:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you should just ask him. Right now you are living with the what if scenario. You should have just waited and when you had the feelings of love for him then express by saying I love you the way youe worded it may have just confused him?.
Men are simple say I love you and then they will reciprocate the same if they have those feelings for you. Really why make it sound so hard. It does sound like he has the same for you but wasn't going to say it like you did. Come on if you love him just say that! If the feeling is mutual then awesome
if it is not then well you can end the relationship and find someone that will love you why waste time on a hmmm.
2007-04-02 09:56:56 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, I also would be wondering about the same thing, but it sounds like you just got him unawares. Give him some time before approaching the topic again, he might be gearing up for a similar declaration to you if the opportunity arises, so give him that chance to step up to the plate before calling him on it.
If he is not in love with you, take heart though that he did not lie and say he loves you too without meaning it.
2007-04-02 09:54:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take it at face value. Some guys aren't comfortable with the "love" word but will tend to show you through his actions how he feels about you.
Just keep an eye on how he treats you. If he starts acting more distant toward you or a lot more cool toward you, you might have a reason to be concerned.
However, if his attitude remains the same or if he even starts doing more things to please you, you can probably rest easy that he feels the same about you.
2007-04-02 09:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by Thrill K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that he was surprised and that he did not know exactly what to say. Perhaps your comment was totally unexpected. What I would be interested in is his behavior after your declaration of love. Did he get closer, did he seek more space? Sometimes we say that before people are ready to hear it. That does not mean that he doesn't love you or won't love you. That just means that such things take time and are not instantaneous for everybody.
2007-04-02 09:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by kolacat17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only advise I have for you would be not to pressure them into answering you and know that it's OK for them not to feel the same way at the same time and it's OK . You don't know what that person has been through and is dealing with just give them time.
2007-04-02 09:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by Candice P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might mean that he likes you too but not yet in the same level as you liking that person. Keep in mind that it takes longer for guys to be in love with someone compared to girls.
2007-04-02 09:55:43 · answer #7 · answered by beachgirl1478 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it means that when they actually do say "I love you" they will mean it. When you hear it, rest assured they were not coerced or pressured into saying it.
By saying "that's good" instead of "oh, we've got to talk" it means that they are likely progressing in the same direction, they're just not there yet.
2007-04-02 09:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by robin0408 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not ready for that type of commitment. it's not uncommon. the only damage done here is that you may have scared him away. when you talk to him, don't dwell on that love conversation. just realize you may have jumped the gun and try again after the relationship gets a little stronger.
2007-04-02 09:54:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he is glad you feel that way and wasn't weirded out..... some people have odd guidelines as to when they will allow themselves to say I love you, they just can't go with the flow! It sounds like you have one of those.
2007-04-02 09:53:48 · answer #10 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
50% yes 50% no. maybe that person loves you too, but is ashamed to admit it yet, or was shocked but that person is attracted to you too. or maybe he does'nt want you to feel bad or rejected that's why he said thats good rather than im sorry but i dont like you.
2007-04-02 09:54:58 · answer #11 · answered by angelyne_heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋