I went to visit this woman who lives next door to me.
She is friends with my girlfriend and I just went over to talk to her. We talked for a while and then we wound up having sex. My girlfriend found out what happened and left me. What can I say to my
girlfriend to get out of trouble. I didn't go over
there intending to have sex. It was the woman who
initiated it anyway so it is really her fault. What should I do??
2007-04-02 02:44:46 · 23 answers · asked by Jack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-04-02 02:48:14 · answer #1 · answered by skcs11 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
So....let me get his straight, You went to visit this woman next door, started talking....
and both of your clothes just fell off???? There must have been gale force winds at work here!!
And even more mysteriously your penis entered her vagina???
I didn't know there were magnets in our genitals!!! I can totally picture smoke coming from both of your' heels by being dragged across the floor to each other!
You sound pretty full of bull to me. Quit blaming everyone but yourself, you idiot!
You slept with her friend and told her it wasn't your fault, what a good defense, you idiot!
I hope your ex-gf is smart enough to never take you back!
And as far as your reply "I didn't go over there intending to have sex", you may have not planned it, but YOU DID IT. You must've been under that woman's magical spell, since you couldn't use the correct head to think, reason or say NO with. Sounds like to me you should've used the head on your shoulders to pound against something....like the wall.
Thanks for your confession. It's men like you that remind me of how lucky I truly am to have an honest, smart, contentious and lovely husband!
2007-04-02 03:21:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to bite the bullet in this matter.
The woman that you went next door to visit didn't hold a gun to your head and force you to sleep with her. You probably could've escaped several times from her 'clutches' and gotten away. I'm sure you weren't gagged...so you could've easily told her you had a significant other. Your girlfriend was absolutely right to leave you, as you demonstrated you had no self-control.
There's nothing you can say to get your girlfriend back, unless she's a fool. Regardless of your intent, you cheated on your girlfriend, and sound like you're trying to make HER responsible for it, rather than accept responsibility for your actions.
Simply be more responsible and trustworthy in the future, and this sort've incident won't happen again.
2007-04-02 02:51:58 · answer #3 · answered by wintermuteprime 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you are screwed it was your fault as well if not more so.
You are with someone and this woman knew this you should have walked out the door and said I'm taken. First of all what in the world made you go over to this other womans house to begin with? I'm siding with your ex she made the right call you showed you cannot be trusted. You basically let her know that she meant nothing to you! If you loved your ex. then you wouldn't have cheated on her. It's over time to carry on with your pathetic life hopefully this will make you grow-up.
2007-04-02 02:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it's your fault. You went over there, and you had sex with the woman. Furthermore, you went over there hoping to have sex, which is just as bad as intending to have sex (which is why your girlfriend dropped you!). When you're ready to talk honestly about the situation, your girlfriend might take you back. Then again, she might not.
2007-04-02 02:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, it's over. You're trying to get out of trouble rather then trying to make it up to her. It's over.
Second, the other woman isn't the one cheating, you were. So no it isn't really her fault, it's yours.
Figure out what you want in life, if it's to be with your girlfriend then do whatever it takes to make it up to her and never make that mistake again.
2007-04-02 02:51:05 · answer #6 · answered by jjbeard926 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a new girlfriend who doesnt know the woman next door and keep the woman next door as a bit on the side. I have 3 different women on the go at the minute. Its fun
2007-04-02 02:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by Sean D 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
it is your fault and the woman's fault, not one or the other. it takes two people to have sex, and the both of you consented. whether or not she initiated it makes no difference. If you truly feel remorse, then I wish you luck trying to regain your gf's trust... but if you don't truly regret it, then I congratulate her for leaving you as that is what she should do.
2007-04-02 02:50:46 · answer #8 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL......doesnt matter who initiated it you still cheated on your g/f. First thing you need to do is face up to your fault, then hope she will forgive you. Everything you do in life has a consequence, good or bad, so unless she tied you up and forced you, you are hardly a victim here.
2007-04-02 02:49:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who so ever initiated the sex, you could have stopped it? now that your girl friend has come to know about it try explaining what was your real intention if she is prepared to listen to you, else forget it and get a new girl friend
2007-04-02 02:53:31 · answer #10 · answered by Dreamer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so you want to play the blame game.... you should have control over your body,if you do not it is your fault... your EX is smart to get out now....why did you go over there without your gf you were looking for it come on give it up Dude.
2007-04-02 02:51:41 · answer #11 · answered by MJ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋