To go out, get with girls. get what i want then move on? i just got out of a relationship and i dont want another, just a bit of fun...
2007-04-01 23:55:47 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's ok if the girls know this, otherwise you'll end up hurting someone and make yourself look bad...
Go have some fun x
2007-04-01 23:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Tickle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep, it is wrong, a little pathetic to be honest.
I did it for a while last year, got nothing out of it other than hurt and guilt. And all it was was kissing and stuff like that, but I felt nothing towards these girls. Then I found it hard to try and have a relationship after when I wanted to.
It has only been in the past few months that I have had the confidence again to have a relationship, now have the best gf I could ever have!
And you must think it is slightly wrong, otherwise you wouldn't be asking!
2007-04-02 00:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by Cookie_Monster_UK 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The fact that your asking the question tells me that your a nice guy - most guys wouldnt think anything of it- you at least have some consideration!
I think as long as your not hurting or leading anybody on in order to get what you want and its just clean honest fun then why not?? Go for it - just make sure you where a helmet - if ya get my meaning!!
Have fun and enjoy your single life if thats what you feel you need at the moment!
2007-04-02 00:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by First L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but dont give out yr phone number i would love 2 do that but in a longterm relationship with kids just use protection might aswell make the most of it while it still workes. buy the way im a girl and know how hard relationships can be so have fun on the plus side ud be more expeirenced if u change yr mind about comitment xx
2007-04-02 00:26:25 · answer #4 · answered by idontgetme 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a problem so long as you do not misslead them or lie to them. There are plenty of women out there looking for exactly the same thing so hook up with them and not someone who is looking for more.
That way you will just be mutually consenting adults gratifying each other with no strings attached and that is perfectly fair.
2007-04-02 02:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by Zaksta 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That idea would be okey if the girl you´re with is someone who´s not into serious relationship (no strings attached) but if you let her fall head over feet with you, then get what you want and leave after, not a good idea. Just try to imagine yourself, if someone played with you, let you fall for her then left you after getting something she wants, what would you feel?
If you had this experience before, don´t have your revenge to innocent woman... Don´t play with other´s emotions because you also have this and it´s not good if other´s play with yours.
2007-04-02 00:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by (sinner*saint) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong to use people. If you make it clear to every woman/girl you meet that its just sex and you dont want a relationship, you will be honest but probably wont get so many takers
2007-04-01 23:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its only wrong if your missleading for all you know the girl may think the same way as you just be honest in this day and age there is someone for everyone no matter what your taste or prefrence just dont hurt anyone heartache can last a long time
2007-04-02 00:00:07 · answer #8 · answered by mark w 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to state from the start that you have come out of a relationship and dont want to be serious. That way you wont be breaking any hearts;
2007-04-02 00:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by Black Magic; 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as the girls you are one nighting know what the deal is then no-one should get hurt. Just dont make them think there is more to it and start breaking hearts coz what goes around comes around, matey.
2007-04-02 00:00:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋