Date a girl that is :
158cm tall
a bit chubby
blonde
really funny
really sensetive
she would care about every single small thing u say or do, she'd give u all her time and attention, she'd go shopping with you and look after u when you're sick...
and she'd never cheat or lie...
i wanna know if all this is true.. then why da hell won't he stay with me?
2007-04-01 23:49:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's so cold.. he says he loves me but calls e only 2wice a day... he says he'd call back and then he never does... he doesnt sms me as much as i do, he never talks 2 me abt his feelings or anything.. when am next 2 him he wont even look at me with a smile like a bf should... and then he can just stop calling or responding for a week & come up with - I WAS BUSy.... :(
2007-04-02 00:06:42 · update #1
Sometimes two people just don't 'fit' together sweetie, it isn't anything wrong with you.
When you meet someone who you totally click with in every way, you'll know what this relationship wasn't meant to be.
2007-04-01 23:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
158cm tall? A little short but its all good!
A bit chubby? Normally I date slim girls because I myself an quite skinny, but hey its all good again!
Blonde? Normally I prefer brunettes, but hair colour is largely irrelevant.
Really funny? Yep- mega!
Really sensitive? I too am sensitive, but being too sensitive may be going a bit far which is your second point. Every little thing I say and so is NOT to be fussed and stressed over.
Give me all your time? No, you need some time to yourself and so do I.
Go shopping with me? Hell yeah! I love shopping!
Look after me when I'm sick? Lovely! I have my tea strong, milk without sugar please!
Never cheat or lie? Nor would I so we're a match there!
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But we come to the clincher now don't we. Because your heart has been broken and you're needing reassurance and support which is of course more than understandable.
Who knows why that in considerate moron decided to dump (what I percieve to be) a good and genuine person such as yourself.
Perhaps you paid TOO much attention to him. Maybe you devoted too much of your time, energy and life to him that he was starting to feel smothered and trapped.
Either way, as hard and as painful as it will be to do, you must move on for your own sanity and wellbeing.
Join a gym and get fit, whilst at the same time raising your good feelings by working out. Join a club of some type to meet new folks. (Really ought to follow my own advice on that one...)
In short I'm sorry you got dumped.
The Iceman.
2007-04-02 07:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by The Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess it's male nature. once you have all these things from a woman...there is no more chasing, no more hunt! he is too sure of himself and wants to be well challenged by you!
or he's a complete d i c k ! young men tend to do what i've just described. and it's not because of you but too much of anything is never good. a balance needs to exist! so if you want him back...push away as well! act colder when you talk to him, you'll be surprized to see the results!
2007-04-02 06:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by aleximas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all i have never seen a man who like shopping or who needed a company for shopping. and u seem kinda needy and clingy. why would he want to stay with u if u re not any challenge at all? people get bored if they have the same stuff every day and they don't need to have any challenge. i wouldn't stay with u either if i were a man. besides, u re chubby
2007-04-02 06:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Babe, you sound lovely, but you are a door mat. Make him work for your love - you are worth it. Sort out the self esteem issues and learn how to make yourself happy and not rely on other people to validate yourself.
Sounds tough, but I've been there and this was the biggest lesson I learned.
Big hugs x
2007-04-02 06:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a tad too "needy"! You have to realize the world don't revolve around you. Or find a guy that will stick to you like white on rice.
2007-04-02 07:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy probably thinks you're too clingy and needy.
Give him some space girl, be your own person and dont make your life about his!!
People have their own preferences - you may be a gorgeous person, but just not right for him. Don't stress about it, just accept he wasnt right for you and move on.
2007-04-02 06:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur partner needs to learn some lesson which u can teach him in making corrections in his flirting nature otherwise serious consequences would b waiting in the coming life.
2007-04-02 06:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by kamal k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am thinking you are pretty young. Sounds really needy and thats a turn-off
2007-04-02 08:19:49 · answer #9 · answered by Matrim C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would. Why not try it out. If it matches my type, i'll stay with the person. If it doesnt than let the person know.
2007-04-02 06:53:04 · answer #10 · answered by Justin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋