he's my bf for a month (here on the internet) & I am not sure if he's serious or not coz i am serious about us. how many times already that i ask his address but he's just ignoring me. what should i do?
2007-04-01 23:18:03 · 14 answers · asked by lani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has his reasons for not giving his address to you after all you still have a long way to go 1 month is not enough, maybe he wants to really get to know you before he'll give you his address. Why don't you ask him why he's ignoring you just so you would understand him and tell him why it's important for you to know and that it'll be ok if he doesn't like to give his address YET to you, you won't force him, lucky for you if he'll answer that but if not after how many attempts on your part then girl, leave him he's not worth it.
2007-04-01 23:27:34 · answer #1 · answered by gab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not bf and gf unless you know each other. If you've only talked online, you don't. Maybe he's scared you're a cyber stalker just pretending to be a girl, cuz that really does happen, or he's otherwise afraid you're crazy. Maybe he is in a relationship already. Maybe he knows the pleasure of a dream is in the fact that it is a dream, something to aim for and fantasize about, and once you really look it in the face, it's inevitably somewhat disappointing. He might want to keep it like that, choosing to think of you as a beautiful, perfect gf, over seeing the reality of it and having to come face to face with flaws like all real people have.
2007-04-02 06:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do?
1. Get the hint that he's married or in a serious relationship and just using you to cheat on his partner.
2. Get the hint that it's impossible to have a boyfriend on the internet.
2007-04-02 06:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't trust you with his address he isn't your boyfriend, and may well be a scammer. Just last week on Dateline NBC there were these people who thought they were engaged to people they met online, but had never met in person. It turns out that they were being used for credit card fraud.
You can build relationships with people online, but you can only be in love with the idea of who you think they are until you've spent time with them in real life and actually know.
2007-04-02 06:32:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mitzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already messed up. When you asked once, it was his move. He might have guessed you're a guy because this is uncommon behavior for a girl. Also, it is probably unwise to start a relationship without enough trust to give an address.
As for what you should do, do you want a boyfriend who doesn't trust you and ignores you? If yes, keep him. If no, dump him.
2007-04-02 06:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by Jonathan H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is married. Give up. Besides, how can you love someone after talking to them for only a month? Don't let yourself be so desperate that you fall for every creep that comes along. You deserve better than that. Relationships take honestly and time. Don't be in such a rush!
2007-04-02 06:26:07 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously playing you. He could be married already for all you know. And u really can't declare a relationship serious when u haven't spent at least a considerable amount of time face to face.
2007-04-02 06:25:08 · answer #7 · answered by Leilyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just playing around.
I wouldnt call him your boyfriend until you are serious enough to meet in person, or to at least speak on the phone.
I met my boyfriend over the internet - we exchanged emails 3 times, then met in person and never looked back.
I believe you can find good friends over the net, but in order to be more you really need to be with them in person.
Good luck hun xx
2007-04-02 06:22:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's playing around, probably on the woman he lives with too, jeezz.
2007-04-02 06:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by Emma J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on sweetie he's hiding something.... spare the heart ache and frustration....
2007-04-02 07:09:14 · answer #10 · answered by Blissfulness.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋