I have had STRONG feelings for him since last year but never bothered to propose him coz I knew he had no feelings for me. I am in Xth standard and he,my classmate,has stopped talking to me since he came 2 know bout my feelings.I also avoided him-never looked at him.He often threatened me to report all these 2 the teachers.MAN HE IS A PSHYCO.But lately,he has been sending letters full of SLANG words only.He even speaks badly whnever I shave to spk 2 him(like asking for a pencil).He has even spread bad rumours about me in the friend-circle.I have lately realised he might be insulting me.But I never cared 2 read all those letters.But I'm so strongly infatuated with him(i know there cant b love at this age).My pals are saying he is very good in nature.but...Should I leave him?Or should I propose to him.I know the message is 2 long.But pls help.
2007-04-01 23:16:03 · 14 answers · asked by tanniburi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it's too hard for you to leave him but believe me this is the best for you
no one should be insulted because of his feeling
and if the one you like didn't understand how u feel he should at least respect you and tell you kindly that he didn't look to you like this
believe me there are many good boys outside
and you deserve one of them so try to forget him and search for one who deserve your love and attention
2007-04-01 23:37:23 · answer #1 · answered by Looking for a dream 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him and tell him off, he's basically insulting you by spreading rumors and so on. He doesn't care about your feelings at all. You need to find someone who is much more better for you. After you tell him off distance yourself from him, don't even speak to him, look at him and everytime you hear a rumor he started just laugh and say something smart like 'He's just mad because I found someone else' or something like that.
2007-04-02 06:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you leave him? How can you leave somebody that you aren't even with? And propose to him? Why would you propose to someone who obviously doesn't want anything to do with you. You need to figure out who you are and stop chasing around after some guy.
2007-04-02 06:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may have mental problems and he may have harsh attitude. Usually in life girls avoid such persons and they find polite and nice people. For such sick persons as him only family can really help or his true friends.
he is weard and harsh person and you are not his true friend. he will suffer all his life because of such harsh karma that he has been given by nature. in society, such persons suffer even more than the persons they have insulted.
You will be insulted by him for one day or two, but he has to bear his sickness all his life.
he cannot have faith in you after all, you will leave him when things become tough.
2007-04-02 06:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by Suchness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm hes a psycho, he spreads rummors about you. speaks to you badly. talks like a caveman (slang)
Look for someone else. Besides your a girl what are you doing waiting for somenobody to ask you to be his girl. Believe me if he wanted you. He would of already asked you.
2007-04-02 06:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM RITE AWAY!!!!!!! By what u told i think he IS insulting u if he can't respect u then he can't love u!!!~ so don't even bother about a guy like him!!!! Coz u will or mite get HURT!! and no guy has a right to hurt a girl!!!!!
2007-04-02 06:32:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tannibur, if you think this guy is insulting you why would you even consider wanting to still date him? Can't you see that to date someone who is mean to you is like asking for abuse. Go talk to your mom about this. Show her your question and ask what she thinks. I bet you will be surprised by her answer.
2007-04-02 06:21:42 · answer #7 · answered by kbama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess...u are in the wrong track like all teenagers...
anyrelation is not wiorth the insult and pain u undergo...
wait for ur prince charm...
and reagrding the complaing to teacher....
remember a girl with tearful eye's word worth much weith thana guy....
so if at all he complains to teacher...u can always say he propsed..u regeted and he is now spoilin gur name and threanting you...
2007-04-02 06:20:47 · answer #8 · answered by little d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to put as much distance between him and you as you possibly can. From your descriptions, you both sound very emotionally immature, and therefor not ready for any kind of "relationship".
2007-04-02 06:19:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, wake up! leave him alone. don't put your self down. he is not a man for you or he's not even a real man.
just study well. & remember there is a lot of boys around you for sure.
2007-04-02 06:28:16 · answer #10 · answered by lani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋