whatever i want to do for my future before that many things ristirct me of doing that?

Question

whenever i want to start something in my life related to job or family matter or anything many questions came to my mind which restrict me of doing that at the same time i stop doing that and so on wat should i do to sick to my thought inspit of many difficulties of strating it wat should i do

Answer 1

dear friend,
I do understand your anxiety but you know life is all about taking risks and facing lots of obstacles, nobodies life is smooth-sailing dear!
But all I would suggest you that don't feel that you are being restricted by your conscience every time it's all the insecurity you feel before doing anything and thinking too much about that matter.
Don't pressurize your ownself. Let the flow of life go it's own direction. It's beautiful friend and a person like you who always think of his family and the way to make them happy is also adorable by everybody.
Diverge your thoughts on several things except thinking too much. Think that there are people who also are trying very hard to fulfill their small needs, you are lucky man that you are in such a position where you can not only think about yourself but others also.
May your life get more charming and beautiful, don't atall worry!
Everything will be alright. Let the time say for you.
Tata.

Answer 2

Start answering the questions u get, put it in paper against ur idea and write all the positive points related to ur idea. Then come to a solution. Don't drop it before u make a solution.

Answer 3

Most the times, when it comes to our future, we dream about how we want things to be. But we donot plan out things perfectly. There's a hell lot that our future has in store for us that can affe4ct our plannings. Like for example, you plan for your career and in the middle of it you spend most of your time with someone you are attracted to. Off course the plan with your career would fail. And if you stick to the paln with your career, your plan with your love would fail. Basically, the restrictions are levied due to our own limited perspectives. At times the restrictions could be socially levied. Taht's to control our own secret desires which can be responsible for future problems.

For a perfect future, we require a perfect planning, and off course follow the plan. However, our own lookout towards the future, our own dreams change with time.Like when we are between the age of 5 to 12, we look out for career as an adventure. When we are at our teens we wanna be loved and appreciated. When we are at early stages of adulthood, we want fame. When we are at medieval stages of adulthood, we want money. When we are at later stages of adulthood, we want to get back into time so that we can correct our mistakes. And finally when we grow old, we just want peace for ourselves and well being of our family.

All the best...

:-)

Answer 4

I can only say you lack postive attitude in life. There is something positive in every person. even a stopped watch is right twice a day.
Just acquant yourself with the latest information and knowledge.

Answer 5

you should do what you have to do every day. respect your family, do your job and do not think much about future. if you concentrate on this moment, the future will take care of itself.

Answer 6

the only thing you should ask your self is "is it good for me to do or not" if you're happy to do it so go on but never stop doing what you think is good

Answer 7

This is anxiety neurosis.