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2007-04-01 22:34:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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If its true love then you shouldnt want to get over it. Because true love never dies.

However, distance yourself from the person, and keep yourself busy. You will hurt, but the more you go out and are in public, the less you will cry. And the faster you will feel better.

2007-04-01 22:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by Zenthae 4 · 0 0

The truth is, you can never get over that one true love, you will always remember them. You now feel empty, right? I know the feeling, you just need time to heal that open wound. It may take some time but in the end, the result is worth it. You will eventually find someone else, who was just as caring as this other person. You may not love and trust as soon as you would of hoped to, but it will all eventually build up and you will feel confident enough to go out and the right person, and you never know, they may find you.

2007-04-01 22:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

As impossible as it may seem, the rule of thumb to deal with this is to tell yourself that you want to get over him or her. If there is still a little bit inside you that wants it to still work out, then you will never get over your ex or the unreciprocative lover (one-sided crush). And nothing you do will ever work. It has got to start with inside yourself. Your mind is the most powerful after all. And you need to stay away from him or her during the initial period till you are comfortable with meeting him again. Chances are, if you keep being in the company of him or her, you will NEVER get over it and you will be stuck. So please, be brave and take the first step and avoid the person. And while you are avoiding the person, below are some things that you can do to make it easier.

Well here are some concrete steps that you can take to get over a break up.

Talking to someone about the break up. You need to let it out! Bottling it up inside of you is never going to solve your problem. Always verbalize your problems to a listening ear. Any problem whatsoever.

Talk to someone in a similar situation helps too.

Get more ideas on how to get over a break up.

Get busy. Occupy yourself with meaningful things like picking up a hobby or learning something new or preoccupying yourself with books and work.

Watch funny movies, read funny comics, chill and laugh around with your friends. Laughter as always is the best medicine. It always makes you feel better no matter what.

Get rid of whatever items that remind you of your partner. Numbers, messages, letters, gifts. If you can't bear to throw them away, put them with your close friend or somewhere you can't easily get to.

This is mean but pretty effective. Start to concentrate on the negative aspects of your partner's character and tell yourself it is not worth it.

Another mean thing to do and it might cause someone else hurt. I do not think it is wise but the thing is you might meet someone better. Go dating, meeting new people, making new friends. Caution: You might fall in love again so be sure to keep your distance. Moving on to someone else to get over someone is effective but not the ideal way to go about doing things. But please don't give anyone the hear break.

Write down all the hurts and angst inside you on a piece of paper and throw it away. Make the getting over tangible. Helps heaps too.

Once again, talk to your friends, hang out with them! Friends are your pillars of support and as they say 'a friend in need is a friend indeed.' Let all your grief out.

Don't Bottle it Inside of You!

2007-04-01 22:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

remember others went and found someone else
and to get there don't keep eyes focused on self
woe is me only for so long work
you not only one ever been hurt
lets say chick pack bags or write Dear John letter
you say good riddence because you deserve better
to pick girl with eyes not always smart
love of life comes by choice of heart

2007-04-01 22:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

The only cure for a broken heart is time. Try to find other things to occupy your time. Try to avoid seeing your ex for awhile too. That's about all you can do. Things will get better.

2007-04-01 23:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1 0

true love

2016-02-01 11:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

go bowling

2007-04-01 22:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by venez4frigginlife 2 · 0 1

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