******Too much tongue?? ****?

Question

i was on a 2nd date with this guy and he tries to kiss me, i dont have much experience, i just thought id take it slow,, but he full on goes for it...with way to much tounge straight away
i kinda held back and pulled away after a bit.....

if you were in his situation what would you be thinking???
i kinda but said bye quickly, and left

im a girl by the way the pic makes me look like a guy!!

Answer 1

I think tongue kissing is a bit much on a second date, and I imagine it would be frightening for someone inexperienced. I would have pulled back right away and made the comment, "Whoa, less tongue please, I hardly know you."

Answer 2

I'm quite a bit older than you, but I recently dated a guy who practically shoved his tongue down my throat! I do love to French Kiss, but in my oppinion that ain't it! LOL. Try initiating the kiss and give him a little bit of tongue at a time. Show him what you like.

Answer 3

lol i like the bit about you saying you said bye n left. right so he was a bit hungry then. next time you see him just explain that you thought this kiss was a bit full on and you dont like it like that. you arnt beeing rude by saying this so he should take it ok and hopfully be a bit more gentle with his kisses.
if you really like this guy then its pointless chucking somthing away over a sloppy kiss.

Answer 4

My guess is he's white, cause you see, all whiteboys don't know how to love the ladies, that's why the white girls come to us brothers.

Lesson: go to her REALLY slow, don't rush in trying to swallow her face, girls' don;t like that, then kiss her gently at first, with closed lips, then sloooowly open your lips & taste hers, then, if all goes well, start frenching her.

Remember: Slow but sure is the way to go.

Answer 5

I think men are pushy at times and just want to score right away. You need to becareful. you should have pulled away and said, "hey what was all that about?" Confront him, let him know who's boss. Then you let him know, that he had crossed the line with you! Then you walk off cute and say C- ya!!! : )

Answer 6

if he's a player trying to just hook up with anybody then he probably has no thoughts about it.

if it was just inexperience then he's wondering what he did wrong if he came on too strong, so if you like him you need to just talk to him and let him know that you like to take it slower.

also he just may not care how you felt, he wasn't aware that his kissing was too much for your comfort level then its a good chance that its all about what he wants and not what you want.

enjoy these life experiences, good luck

Answer 7

Well it depends on how the date was going?? If you showed any interest in him and he thought he could kiss you, then that's where the problem arises...If this is not the case he is a "horny jerk" and you should loose his number, and don't respond to his calls!

Answer 8

I would just ask him to calm it down a bit. I can understand that it's not very easy to say though. It really depends how much you like him: if you really like him then "re-train" him, if not then it's probably not worth it.

Answer 9

too much tongue toooo fast, well u did d right thing! dont care about what he thinks, you are a unique individual, so act in a way you feel comfortable with.

Answer 10

hmmmmmmmmmmmm....
well that's a little bit hard to answer...
well maybe i would just pull away slowly and gently, without him to notice, and if it really bothers u,, then tell him to slow down, u ain't running away!