I have some kind of relationship with a certain guy. We did fall in love & we're still together. He, however, had to leave for a few months. && while he was gone..i'd slept with someon else...my plan is to confess to him when he gets back, but im afraid that he won't give me a second chance. i dont even know what's the best way to tell him. i want to tell him in person, but he might ask "why'd you wait so long to tell me?." do i deserve a second chance & should i wait to tell him, or should i call him up and tell him.
2007-04-01 17:31:50 · 11 answers · asked by snukey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you completely cut ties from this person you slept with? Are they out of your life for good? If they are then DO NOT tell him. There is no reason for him to know what happened. You also have to figure out what kind of relationship you have with this man of yours. Is it exclusive? Is it just physical? Why did you sleep with someone else? Were you just horny? Are you feeling "lost" in your current relationship? Understanding why you make certain decisions helps you understand where you feel you are in your life.
2007-04-01 17:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both single? Sounds like you're not done playing the field. You need to start asking what's best for him. If you love this guy at all; then you should break up with him and tell him that he deserves better. Cut the poor guy loose.
2007-04-01 17:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by AnswerGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope u don't deserve a second chance. sorry bout that but why would u cheat on him unless u don't want him any more. plus it was for a couple of months, if u can't do that then your relationships in trouble. just tell him over phone and end it now.
2007-04-01 17:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by Branshaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things happen..... he might understand he might not..... if u dnot do it again then sure u deserve a second chance ....everyone deserves a second chance.... but tell him when your ready to tell him if you feel ready to do it now then go for it if u think it will b better in person then wait its your call
2007-04-01 17:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you dont if you loved him and cared about him you would have waited for him this is not acceptable in a relationship if this happends to me its over i find out my bf slept with someone else he better run for the hills
2007-04-01 17:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by ~Lisa~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooooh
tricky
If you love him and you think he loves you and the two of you want to work together to make your relationship a happy and fulfilling one, yes maybe you deserve a second chance.
On the other hand - how is he to know that?
Could be interesting.
2007-04-01 17:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you used protection.If not get to the health department and get tested asap.Dont tell him! Men have big egos.He will never get over it.
2007-04-01 17:41:03 · answer #7 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you??? Why did you do that to someone that is (I'm assuming) deserving of someone devoted to him. I'm not judging you I'm just saying you have to figure out why you did what you did.
2007-04-01 17:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by Rebecca A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are screwed the best thing tell him as soon as possible whether by phone or in person.
2007-04-01 17:39:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. you blew it. you do need to tell him, so if you sleep with him again, then he knows he could catch something. you couldn't be faithful for even a couple of months?! geez.
2007-04-01 17:49:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋