Ive been goin out with this beautiful girl for technically 5 months now (but more like 8) and i have to be honest i'm 100% in love with her1 Well were in high school and dont really see eachother that much (except weekends) and i can see she just doesnt feel the same about me... i know that im like the only guy that shed do stuff with if u no what i mean ;) but she has other guy friends that she feels more comfortable around and would just rather talk to them. I no she isnt attracted to any of them but i still feel wiked jealous and i guess thats how i really know i love her, because i'd take a bullet if she could just feel that comfortable around me and.. well anyway.. so how long should i give her to love me? i know 5 mths is soon and i know our relationship can flourish.
2007-04-01 17:28:17 · 12 answers · asked by andydrummer2004 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont rush anything it will happen on its own if you try to make it happen or give it a due date neither of you are going to be happy and then that will be the end of your realtionship....so let it happen on its own and stop stressin it....if you love her then continue to love her and just be happy with the way things are now good luck
2007-04-01 17:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
5-8 months and she's not comfortable around you the way she is with other guys? Dude, that's a problem.
I would say to really make your time count on the weekends. Do things that will help her loosen up around you. Play putt-putt...go to some place with go-karts or something.
I'd give it no more than another month. That's 4 weekends. If nothing changes, cut her loose and cut your losses.
2007-04-02 00:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just so you know, I've never been in love, I don't think, but I've been jealous before and I know how much it sucks. And the drama of last year qualifies me to answer this (in my opinion). So here goes. I think that your GF isn't ready to have one and only one "deep-talk" person. I know I'm not ready yet. She probably knows you so well and at times we girls need to have some sort of knowledge intake. She needs to learn the opinions of these people. It's nothing one person can fufill. I talk to different random people about all sorts of deep stuff all the time. I feel like I understand more of the world whenever I do. I think she needs that.
2007-04-02 00:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by stars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if she doesn't like you too much move on but always be there for her, she will come around, trust me after shes been with other guys that don't like her she will love you. Good Luck with this.
2007-04-02 00:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by Sexy♥Sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how u feel, maybe shes just waiting for u to open up about ur feelings before she shows u hers
2007-04-02 00:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by msX 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your sure of her feelings about you.....Get over her anyway you can.
As the longer you keep trying to hold on the more it's going to hurt (you)
when you do realize it's just not going to go your way.
2007-04-02 00:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she really likes you but she doesn't want to be in love with anybody. You should talk to her about how she feels.
2007-04-02 00:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by Egg Bagel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax dude and wait. Your still getting to know each other so just see how it goes.
2007-04-02 00:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will probably never stop loving her...but you dont have to be with someone to love them...you can love them from afar.
2007-04-02 00:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by Andromeda 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Should move on buddy...in any case, if she finally decides she likes you, she'll call you back.
2007-04-02 00:31:33 · answer #10 · answered by onlyonholiday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋