Ok I am head over heals about this one girl I met online. We just clicked and I am getting really emotional about a girl I have never met, which is really stupid. We have been talking to each other for a month online and exchanging many photos and I have been reading her myspace page. Everytime she is online it brightens my day and neither of us seem to want to stop talking to each other.
Usually I am very shy and can't talk to girls, but this girl I can't stop talking to. I am so crazy about her. We have talked to each other for hours and hours on the phone, neither of us wanting to hang up the phone.
I am meeting her in california for 4 days where she lives. We have a whole mini vacation planned out.
Under the advice of friends and family members I am forcing myself to still talk to other girls, they know I have a tendancy to get emotionally attached to someone too quickly and don't want to see me get hurt. But I really don't want to talk to these other girls, I want her
2007-04-01 17:22:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should still talk to the other women online. You don't have to flirt with them. You don't have to chat them up. Talk with them. Girls love to talk.
It's much better if you don't flirt with them. It's much better if you let them know what's going on in your life.
In fact, tell them all about your trip to california.
They will be interested and take note.
AND if it falls apart, you have a ready made social network to support you.
2007-04-01 17:26:11 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay your course ,don't talk to other women if you really like this chick. What will happen is you will be self conscious of these other women when you are visiting her and she will be able to read you. Your plans for your mini vacation will be ruined by your guilt. If you want to talk to other woman ,wait till you get back, you'll have a better feel for your relationship by then. You sound like you really like this chick ,so give her some respect by making her your priority.
2007-04-01 17:32:17 · answer #2 · answered by artic ranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meeting someone on the internet is hard. Its easy to type your feelings to someone, but how is it goign to be in person. Its a completely different world. I met a guy online once and i thought he was perfect, but when i met him it was really awkward and we were different. Who knows maybe you will luck out. have a good vacation
2007-04-01 17:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by Star274009 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your going thru is normal but you need to just take a step back and relax. Sometimes things don't work out so be prepared for that and you'll be OK.
2007-04-01 17:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey do not close all doors to other relationships because of someone on myspace whom you've never met be4...thats jus stupid
2007-04-01 17:26:50 · answer #5 · answered by Sexy*Black*Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything you do not want to do. As far as meeting people online, be careful. People are not always as they present themself. Be causious. Meet the girl, and enjoy it for what it is ... but don't go overboard. Good luck.
2007-04-01 17:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by daffodil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u havent met her in person yet......she could be a totally different person from the online version.........
u dont know someone until u have met them.
keep talkin.....there's no harm in that
2007-04-01 17:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by americangurl_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...
do what you want.
You're the owner of your life.
Do what you think is right.
Just stop flirting with other girls.
If you want her or you think she's the one.
Go For It!
^_____^
2007-04-01 21:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by kacspar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want to do. It is your life after all.
2007-04-01 17:27:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same issue u have mates.......so i would recommend u to wait and try out wid that gurl, and than decide should u meet wid other gurls or not.....that is wat i am doing.....
2007-04-01 17:27:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋