I mean u women always say that u want a nice guy but then u dump us nice guys for the big tuff ones and u wonder why there is no nice guys left in the world i mean u know that the tuff guys are going to cheat on u .... so yeah why do u do all this?
2007-04-01 17:11:21 · 24 answers · asked by tommy two tone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree. Women always want what they don't have. I don't get it either. Now that I have finally found a good nice guy I am not letting anyone else have him. Don't worry there is a girl out there for you.
2007-04-01 17:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by Meghan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im a nice guy and I never got dumped yet. hehehe, My secret is this. Dont act like a jerk! be mature and never make a woman feel like they were Gods.
the difference is, Tuff guys dont mind whether they got dumped or not. They were in for the ride and chalenge that a woman can give to them. and if they won the battle they can easily manipulate the girl and have what they want.
For me the more chalenge that I can get from them the more eager I will. Your instinct can tell you whether they are lying or not. Looking for there weakness is the best way to control them and make them fall for you.
For us nice guys the only different is we know that woman are romantic beings and has no time for playing. If you like a woman treat them with respect and honesty and always be yourself. Dont be someone that your not. Thats a trademark for a nice guy. Besides easy comes easy go.
If you really love a woman that much. well you should be ready for the challenge and fight for your feelings. because if its not true you will give it up so easily.
Unfortunately, woman cant differetiate whos a tuff and wose not. But if they will make some chalenges that they think tuff guys will not succeed well good for them.
2007-04-02 00:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by Ace B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I will argue with that one 100%.. yes I did go through the stage where I wanted the tuff guy.. but that was when I was younger.. as WOMEN mature they want the good ones... It's amazing now to see what I was missing all long with the tuff guys! The girls want the tuff guys.. the WOMEN want the nice guys!
2007-04-02 00:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A lot of women have a need to be known as "the one who changed me". Meaning that, there is something satisfying to us when we date a "tuff guy", and we're able to make him want to be a nice guy. So, to make a long story short, we just want to change their ways..
2007-04-02 00:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by D.L.C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question they jsut do yeah i mean i might tend to do that too but not really im more into nice trust me i am
yeah theyre tuff and it makes u fell like theyll protect u but wats thepoint in having someone protect u when theyre the ones hurting u
to me the tuff arent always the best
i gave up on those and just stuck with nice ones yeah sometimes its nice to have a tuff guy but i prefer nice though
2007-04-02 00:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's this thing called attraction. We women can't controll who we're attracted to, it just happens.
Haven't you seen one of those cocky-funny guys walking around with immense girl success? It's because girls like it, they don't like to admit it, when a guy is tough with them. A game of wit, a challenge, it makes a girl attracted to the guy who's jokingly putting her down.
I'm very sure it's an instinct thing. Wussy, nice guys are usually the ones who get killed first in nature. So, our attraction is based on the tough, the cocky-funny, the one who challenges us rather than come after us in desperation.
When a girl is attracted to a guy, there's nothing that will stop her from going to the guy, even if the guy is abusive, etc. Most sensible girls that I know have high standards when it comes to guys, so the censor out the really bad ones, but somehow always end up with a sarcastic funny guy, or just not the typical nice guy we say that we always want.
There have been a ton of times when I've felt this attract toward a guy who was absolutely nothing I was looking for. He didn't have as high standards, kind of had nothing really going for him, he just had this confidence, a kind of humor that was irresistable and he teased me to death and I found that deathly attractive, as much as I now see how crappy that guy really was.
I hope that answers your question. It's just my point of perspective after years of experience and reading a bunch of theories on psychology and stuff. College can do that do you.
2007-04-02 00:19:48 · answer #6 · answered by natalia j 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's a genetic preference. Women flock to whatever appears to be the alpha male. Even though women these days aren't so blatantly occupied with safety and childrearing, our subconcious still is. A tough man can protect you and your babies from harm, and then your babies will grow up to be tough like him, so they will survive.
2007-04-02 00:24:00 · answer #7 · answered by F^3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they think the bad boy is exciting and fun that is until he starts treating them like crap! Eventually they get it and come back to the nice guys. There's nothing you can do but be yourself dude. You'll find a good one sooner or later.
2007-04-02 00:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Females want someone they can trust and that can protect them. Guys that usually fit that image are tough. At the end of the day the tough guy usually isn't the one that is on our mind, but its what the nice guy did and the tough guy didn't.
Hope that helped!
2007-04-02 00:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by Syedah A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dated the tough guys and married a nice guy.
Tough guys are fun for awhile but not fun to get serious with.
2007-04-02 00:16:50 · answer #10 · answered by Peg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋