I am a teddy bear, 5 foot 8 inches and around 285 and i find myself no where near attracted to any girl over 160. Many a time i find myself in public sitting there looking and in my head im thinking that shes nice or im going back and forth between people... I want to find an average to skinny girl that likes teddy bears. Im not the smelly fat guy, ive got a big belly, no rolls. Someone please help me with this.
2007-04-01 16:25:12 · 9 answers · asked by BIG-RIG 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont mean and i hope i didnt sound shallow...
2007-04-01 16:26:23 · update #1
Everyone has a "type" and heavy girls just aren't yours. Some people may say you're shallow. But they forgot that they also have a type. They might not mind that a girl is big but maybe they don't like red hair or something stupid like that. I don't see why you should have any problems finding a girl who likes a teddy bear. I know plenty who do, Good luck!
2007-04-01 16:30:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nothing to be ashamed about. It is just a personal preference. We all have those. My best friend always thought men with superfluous hair were disgusting. Then she married the most wonderful hairy guy, and no longer feels that way. What I'm saying is you may meet a sweet teddy bear yourself one day, so don't sweat it.
2007-04-01 16:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by NC Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are what you are, you're attracted to what you're attracted to. That said, you're going to have a harder time finding a woman who's attracted to you. The average woman is about 150 pounds now, so there are enough women out there who you will find attractive. You need to concentrate on being a guy who is so terrific that a woman will overlook your weight: kind, considerate, thoughtful, interesting, supportive, secure. I know a guy who weighs 305 and he's married to a woman who weighs 145. She loves him, but she is worried about his health, so you'll probably need to get a physical every year and watch your blood pressure and cholesterol, so you can reassure a woman that even though you're large, you're in good health.
2007-04-01 16:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but why did you put your stats in the question? All were going to do it point out that youre short and big, like a square. Your name isnt Bob is it?? LOL I really am sorry, Im not trying to be mean.
Doesnt matter to anyone but you what type of girl you like. Go for it.
2007-04-01 16:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by Peg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well for not being the smallest guy yourself it sure sounds like you've got some high expectations. I don't think there is anything wrong with not wanting a larger girl but you have to look at yourself as well. Maybe some girls won't chose to date you because of your weight. It works both ways.
2007-04-01 16:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by yoopergoddess 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...maybe you ought to go to Toys R Us and buy a teddy bear. Then you can date them. Or Build a Bear Workshop. That place whoops tooter.
2007-04-01 16:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with that. Most heavy men are quite sexy but big girls are not as nice looking, in my opinion, so I fully understand . And everyone has a preference.
2007-04-01 16:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by just because 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have to lift your belly to find your peter you should'nt mind lifting hers.
2007-04-01 16:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by Joe mama 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are disgusting!
2007-04-01 16:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by Poster22 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋