Biblically, we are told that a woman causes Adam, the first man to fall, then Sampson the strongest to fall, & Solomon the wisest to fall, along with King David, who loved God with all his heart.
I am afraid of women. I confess, I am afraid to date a woman. I have no problem getting a woman. It is easy, because I am a pretty good guy, mostly, I mean I treat people kindly.
But I am afraid to date or get married, afraid of being seduced into doing wrong, just like all the other men. I must stay single so I can stay strong, right?
It is a conflict, I am being torn apart by the sweetness & kindness of some women, & the desire to mate & have a family, but that wars against my terrible fear she will make me do something I will regret.
Or something I didn't want to do.
It feels almost like I can't live with a woman because they are so evil, but I can't live alone because the desire to have a beautiful woman as wife is so strong.
Please tell me what to do, I am going crazy here!!!
2007-04-01 16:06:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've learned that there is only one fear: the unknown. So, you aren't necessarily afraid of women, you must just not know a lot about them, just to be cliche, because the women in your life so far (mother, sisters, etc) have not wanted you to know them and kept you away with addictions, anger, sarcasm, etc. As corny as this sounds, a fun way to practice getting to know/flirting with women is to chat up elderly women. First, they will love the company, but second, many of them might have been femme fatales when they were younger, so their reactions will be quite genuine. Get used to that sparkle in their eye for women you are attracted to.
So, flirt with every size, shape, and age woman you can, and soon you'll grow more comfortable with those you truly like and you'll realize how to sort out the sweet ones from the selfish ones. Because that's probably your real issue is that you care too much about what self-absorbed women think of you, not the good ones.
2007-04-01 16:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by Shaggy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you got to do is to treat women as women... you do have a mother, if you do treat women like the way you treat your mom with respect and don't fear them because behind all the failures of men you were evil women but to tell you the truth behind every successful man lies a beautiful woman...
What im trying to say is not all women are evil but they can be deceitful if you are... so be good and treat them they want you to and i'm pretty sure you'll get over that fear of yours.
Good Luck!
2007-04-01 16:13:36 · answer #2 · answered by Jean Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first figure out why u have such fear, is is based on some experience you've had? then realize that she can't MAKE you do anything. and what is this about women being evil? u should look at that. but to comfort you, i think a lot of men are afraid of women. we're practically different species. women are more in tune with things than men are, generally, and they can pick up on subtle things that men don't. they can also communicate better. men feel inadequate, and don't know what to make of us.
2007-04-01 17:16:19 · answer #3 · answered by alive on a ball named earth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
overcome deep fear women
2016-02-01 11:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding if you are not then i would advise you to stay away from women because your right about us. You give us an inch and we will take a mile.If you are that weak and we can make you do things you don't want to do then all i can say to you is grow some balls man. Sorry don't no any other way to put it.
2007-04-01 16:17:34 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are thinking way ahead of yourself...you are not ready to settle down with any woman because you have not met the right one yet. You may be getting a little antsy about commitment, maybe you are exposed to others who are attached and wonder if you could handle it or trust it, the truth is whenever you meet the right woman you will not fear her. You will feel more at home than you ever have. Until you feel that sure, you should not settle down with any one.
2007-04-01 16:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by katy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm, I don't say this to be insulting at all, but you need to consider therapy. Seriously, that is my advise. No one can get you to do what you do not want to. Just be careful, and think with the right head, so to speak.
You'll be ok.
2007-04-01 16:11:13 · answer #7 · answered by fromorto12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women come in a variety. Not all of them are good and not all of them are evil. You can figure out which ones are which by watching how they treat the other people in their life.
2007-04-01 16:13:05 · answer #8 · answered by J D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just start to talk with them by phone then work on meeting them and in time you will be more comfortable being with them.
2007-04-01 16:09:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are alot of smart, funny, attractive, beautiful, loving, caring, sexy, sweet, fit, girly, feminine men in the world....
2007-04-01 16:13:44 · answer #10 · answered by SeAwAvEs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋