go down is that more important then me???being there?

Question

Ok I went to see my bf at his house, because he is leaving for a weeks for business so I cooked for him at my place and I took the stuff with me, he eat and we were relaxing in his bed, we were watching tv too, anyway he want me to go down on him and I start doing it but stuff coming out and I don’t like it so I stopped and I told him I don’t fell like doing it, and said come on please, so I said go wish ur self I might do it when u comeback he came back with attitude he didn’t want to lay down next me he want talk to me, I ask what was wrong with him and I said it is because I wouldn’t do what u ask me and he said yes and I start laughing, and I said aright come on I will do it, and said stuff is going to come out and he had attitude so I said DO U WANT ME TO LEAVE and he said if u want I got so mad, and I said what are u doing this right before u leave and he start laughing when he was smoking ? Don’t u think that is ignorant he is suppose to leave Tuesday night, and every Monday we spend it together. And we been togther for about 14 month.

Answer 1

Well what do you expect? This relationship seems to be based more on the boy and girl and not the friend part. I mean it would seem that he just wants you to give him a bj, when you failed he was upset at you, because chances are, thats one of the big reason your are there.... So really if you want to keep dealing with this stuff, stay with him, and watch how much worse it gets for you. Or you can take this as an eye opening experience that he really doesn't care about how you feel about things, as long as you do them.... which might be bringing another women into the bedroom next... you never know... seems he is just pushing you to see what he can get alway with. Usually if you care about a person and you want an act like that profrom theres a lot more emotion being thrown back and forth.... this just seems like childs play, no offense.....