Well, i think i love this girl. She is a really good friend of mine and i love everything about her. me and her have the same things in common, like Everything, and shes christian, does not cuss, likes the same music i do, i mean perfect for me. The thing is, one of her friends came to me and asked me if i thought she was cute, and i answered yes. I know her friend told her, and now when i hear her talking with other people about me i get the feeling she doesn't like me. But the wierd thing is she still seems like she likes me, and thier is nothing akward between us, even though she might know i like her. I am so confused on what to do, do i tell her, and she say no so our friendship would be akward or just wait it out? What do you guys think? Also, the reason i put this in the christian part is i want godly answers, the christian way to approach this issue. since i am a christian i thought it would be smart to post it here. thanks in advance!
2007-04-01 13:26:58 · 10 answers · asked by pilotman 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Pray about it. Ask God to show you his plan. God is most important, and he has the perfect plan set out for you. If you feel like God is telling you to ask her out, then go for it :)
2007-04-01 13:36:26 · answer #1 · answered by CrAzY4ChRiSt 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't know how old you are but from your words in this question, I think you are still young, maybe in the teens, you need to hold up here, you still need experience in life,
To grow up...get together with your friends.
She needs the same...my God, you have more out there pick from not just one until BANG it will hit you.
Love is...kind, does not look for its own interest but for the other person or persons, not jealous, dose not get puff up.
You do a lot for the other person, The sexual thing is only one part of the pie. You need the other qualities to hold the both of you together...it goes both ways.
Take your time...there is more grass on the other other side of the fence.
Take it easy, enjoy life while you are still young, get experience in life.
Peace....
2007-04-01 21:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by Donaldsan theGreatone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say wait it out a little longer. If her friend told her then just wait and see and see if she starts showing more interest than usual. The worst thing would be to jump the gun and completely turn her off. I speak from experience from when I was in high school and one of my guy friends told me. I was flattered but the timing was off and it did affect our friendship. Really pray about this. Totally surrender this to God. HE will direct your paths. His timing is always perfect. Good luck!
2007-04-01 20:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by roswin980 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First pray,and wait a bit.If you feel led by God,do not hesitate share your heart with her.Can you pray with this girl?Is she seeking God the way she should be?Is she totally committed to God?If you can both walk with God together this is so beautiful.If you really want a commit ed relationship be sure you will treat her with respect,remember don't do or say to her what you would not say to Jesus.Be blessed and wait if need be
2007-04-01 20:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy / Girl relationships are delicate even when both are christian.
Most likely, she doesn't know how to deal with the news you care for her.
To her its 'heavy'.
She wants it, but it scares her.
Because she is afraid, she will do a number of things that are out of context.
The best approach is:
DO NOT LOSE YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR!
Be genuinely relaxed. Let her do her thing.
Give the idea you will wait until she catches up.
2007-04-01 20:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by Uncle Thesis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's like the girl of your dreams then you should be pulling out the stops to get to know her and if she's what you really think she is then win her heart. Facing the fear of rejection of course. Faint hearts never won fair ladies!
If not, get to know her as a friend and see what grows.
Win,win.
2007-04-01 20:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by Who's got my back? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude the bible, im afraid, doesnt have the answer for the dilemma your living... id say, first of all, saying that a girl is cute has nothing to do with the fact that you like her, you might find a girl attractive, but it doesnt necessarily mean you have feelings for her... but think of this if shes acting weird after she found out you think shes cute (oh my, how horrible) imagine how shell react if you tell her something... i personally think you should ask her out or something if youre that interested, whats the worst thing she can say 'no!', but thats as bad as it can get....remember its not the same to think a girl is cute, than to actually like her or 'love' her in your case... may God illuminate your path
2007-04-01 20:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by nickname 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Not a godly answer but . Wait it out is it more important to have her as a friend or not have her at all
2007-04-01 20:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by Snooter McPrickles 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She probably sent her friend to ask that question. I think she likes you a lot but wants you to make the first move.
2007-04-01 20:33:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am TOTALLY in LOVE with my BEST Friend.......... religion has NOTHING to do with it.... when you are dating, you're looking for something in particular.... you look for EVERYTHING that fits that picture. When in REALITY, your BEST friend is what you really love. BEST FRIENDS comes in BEFORE what you "may" want. When you fall in love with someone for them BEING YOUR FRIEND, Everything else falls in place. LOVE your friend, screw the dating thing, REAL LOVE comes when you're NOT looking for it! I can't express this enuff. I'd love my best friend over any dating thing anytime. your choice.
2007-04-01 20:40:31 · answer #10 · answered by Stabby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋