I've been dating this guy for a month now but I;m not sure about him because he wanted to have sex on the second date (we never had sex) and he calls me once every three days and we hardly go out on dates and when we do, he seems like he likes me but i don't feel like like he's giving me enough attention. What should I do, I am an attractive 19 yr old???
2007-04-01 10:16:55 · 10 answers · asked by CANDEE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah I do call him and try to make plans but they don't work for him and I'm just wondering if i should stick with him or just talk to other people.
2007-04-01 10:26:10 · update #1
Well....don't put out just to get his attention please! I would have a talk with him about spending more time together or maybe you could like.....set dates with him....these days women CAN call the shots when it comes to dates too! I tell you from experience....males are not mind readers and if you feel that he needs to give you just a bit more attention...tell him! If he just wants you for that one thing.....move on to someone who respects you enough to wait until your ready (married)........
2007-04-01 10:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by Benita Applebum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're an attractive 19 year old then you shouldn't have a hard time finding someone else who will give you the attention. If this guy wanted to have sex with you on the second date and hasn't paid much attention to you since then, then that's probabaly all he wants.
2007-04-01 10:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok - first of all, if he wanted to have sex on the second date then he's probably just in it for the sex. Second, if you really feel like he's not completely there for you then you should stop dating him - it'll probably be hard at first, but you'll soon realize how much much better you feel not having to wonder if he really likes you all the time.
2007-04-01 10:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by seakinggirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend wants to have sex on your second date then I feel that this is not right . Maybe just tell him that you are waiting untill you know for sure if this relationship will be true and if he doesn't understand that then he is only after one thing and you are very young yet , so be careful . Love is honesty and affection for one another. If someone truthfully loves you they should wait till the right time .
2007-04-01 10:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by cherhart52 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just waiting for you to give in & have sex. Call him more & make plans to hang out w/ him, see if a relationship can develop. Maybe he thinks you're not that interested if he always has to call you & always has to invite you out, you should make a move sometimes too. He must like you some if he's still taking you out, even if it's every once in awhile.
2007-04-01 10:21:40 · answer #5 · answered by tanner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him, either he's just in it for the ***, or he's too fast for you. Most likely, he's probably just lookin for a piece of ***. If its a real relationship, you guys would be going out all the time and spending as much time together. Sex is always their nudging both guys and girls, but seriously, don't let yourself fall for this guy, unless he's showing something meaningful., But by the description you gave, hes just lookin for something to sooth his hormones, get rid of him.
2007-04-01 10:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by Laxbaby05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date other people.
2007-04-01 10:23:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else, you are obviously getting
negative vibes from this guy. Find someone
who you feel comfortable with and who treats
you right.
2007-04-01 10:21:11 · answer #8 · answered by chmar11 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him
2007-04-01 10:20:28 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give out too soon if you're not sure...
2007-04-01 10:19:29 · answer #10 · answered by kittytie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋