Tell him over the phone that you have decided to concentrate on school, career, taking care of mother, whatever, and that it will mean no time and interest in continuing the relationship. Wish him luck and tell him there is no discussion about the matter and you hope he finds happiness elsewhere.
If those are no good, simply say you want space to think about you life as a solo person.
2007-04-01 09:05:38
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answered by Legandivori 7
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The only thing a guy can respect at a time like this is complete honesty.
After you tell him you want out, end your statement with at least I was honest and was always up front with you. Please don't be mad.
He will probably act like he was about to though hissy fit and stop himself because you are right, and hell say, "fine."
Then, because you dumped him, you are going to feel great.
He on the other hand is going to curs and ***** about you a little bit. Then he will always remember that you were honest and calm down a lot faster then if you had beaten around the bush. So, stay away afterwords, guys heal on their own and with their friends. The presence of the X only aggravates and confuses the guy in to thinking you want him back.
And that is the worst case scenario if you play it right.
I'm sure it will go better then this. You sound very smart.
2007-04-01 16:14:17
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answered by Eyerish 5
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Just do it and don't look back. Don't try to rekindle later on either.
2007-04-01 16:01:03
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answered by stringhead3 4
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hmm..well it depends on the reason
2007-04-01 16:00:57
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answered by Laxbaby05 2
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