2007-04-01 07:46:15 · 23 answers · asked by BobbiL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U have to think to urself wat is ur definition of love although u claim to b in love clearly arent sure because u said you think. Love takes time to grow and develop . How much time does a married man have to spend with you. Have you thought about what you would do or be going through if you were the wife in the situation?
Here's some food for thought:
If your in "love" then see if this man is in love also if he is then he should have no problem with no longer cheatingon his partner with you. He should do the right thing and just leave because cheating withyou doesnt make the situation any better. Do you really want to the cause of a break up?
2007-04-01 07:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter if it is a married man or woman, NO matter how bad they describe their marriage, they can always make up, I had this happen to me YEARS ago, I met A married woman, at least she was ,he was going out, womanizing, drinking, beat the hell out of her, and on and on, but when he started staying home a bit more out went the great guy(ME) in goes the piece of crap, many years later she told me it got worse, that she looked for me, I said strange you didn't see me the whole year we were together, I was right in front of you. be careful..OK Good Luck
2007-04-01 14:58:25 · answer #2 · answered by sirmrmagic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of this situation now!!
You'll be headed for hurt and heartbreak not to mention you'll also be hurting others such as a wife and maybe children.Don't be responsible for that. It's a big load of guilt to carry around on your shoulders.
Maybe one day he'll be divorced and then you'll be able to love him.Stay away in the meantime and you;ll never regret your decision.
2007-04-01 14:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop fantasizing. People don't "fall in love"; it is an act of will. You see yourself involved with this "married man" because you want to be. You can choose "not to be".
2007-04-01 14:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop the relationship now. You will only get hurt. Men very rarely leave their wife for another relationship and if they do do you think you would trust him? I think this is an overall bad idea and you really shouldnt have started anything when you found out he was married. First it is wrong and think about his wife who is probably clueless.
2007-04-01 14:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get your head examined. What is the attraction? You want something you can't have. You need your head examined about that. You Covet? There is a Commandment about that. You need to have your head examined about that. Assuming this dude has kids, you want to threaten those kids security and future?
Take yourself out of this picture and get your head straight!
2007-04-01 14:53:43 · answer #6 · answered by Campo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have to stop now. Don't bother to waste ur time and start adding to emotional baggage. It's not cool because then you will not be respecting your self and for your integrity's sake is not worth it. Blow him off! He is taken and probably has a family so you need to look at another venue.
2007-04-01 14:51:02 · answer #7 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to realize the hurt that you are contributing to if you do go any further with your thoughts. This is cheating and betrayal. Try to avoid being around him. Good luck and do the right thing.
2007-04-01 14:51:43 · answer #8 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please do not do that,i alway avoid married men.its awful how somebody can break a marriage apart.i know you cant control your emotions but please do not go with him.you never know if his wife loves him or the kids or even if she is pregnant.im 18 and many married guys tried hitting on me but i pass,its not the right thing to do.find someone single without responsibilities and woman on the side.just be careful
2007-04-01 14:54:03 · answer #9 · answered by ♥I_rock_you♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Steer clear, don't become a part in their separation. If he finds you after he has left, for his own reasons, then go for it. Plus love fades and if you change your mind than you won't feel responsible for his actions.
2007-04-01 14:51:33 · answer #10 · answered by octavia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋