I remember drinking but not throwing up, laughing, dancing, passing out & snoring through the rest of the reception. Everyone is furious. I was just trying to have fun. I was told I looked a sight with vomit on my bridesmaids dress, snoring with my mouth wide open. Why did they just let me sit there? What would you do if it was your wedding?
2007-04-01 07:28:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Even though it was your best friend's wedding, you should not have let yourself get as crazy drunk as you did thinking it would be acceptable. Best friend or not, it is not ever a good idea to get that drunk at anybody's wedding. You not only embarassed yourself but I have no doubt that the bride and groom were very embarassed to have you sitting near them snoring with vomit all over yourself. Very glamorous, I'm sure that made the night very memorable for the two of them.....think about it. As for why they let your "just sit there" well you did it to yourself. You got plastered beyond self control so now you have to deal with the consequences.
2007-04-01 07:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by spunion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm leaning toward she wasn't so drunk she didn't know what was going on. If it was dark and a stranger crawled into my bed, I would know if it was my wife or not. Hell, she was sober enough to be on all fours engaging in sex which can be awkward and takes a bit of balance. Regardless, anyone can make a mistake and I mean anyone. Sex, in the grand scheme of things, is just sex. The worst part about it may be the attitude that she is exhibiting now. She just wants you to accept what happened without any recriminations. That kind of smacks of guilt. If you can't get over this, either with professional help or just you together as a couple, your marriage is doomed. If you can't you can't. If you want this relationship to survive, then you might should put every effort into being able to accept this. From what you describe, there is no way the two of you will work this out without help. To you, good luck. lp
2016-03-17 06:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some friend you are! Guess that's your last wedding for doing bridesmaid's duties after a performance like that! I'm sure the groom's family will be really pleased to know that their new daughter in law hangs around with drunks!
To be honest I don't know what I would have done with you...I suppose it would have been up to your escort to do the escort job and take you home. I wouldn't have expected anyone else who was dressed up in new expensive clothes to have started moving a vomit stained drunk around.
Maybe they could have tossed a table cloth over you :)
2007-04-04 22:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by endorable 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was MY wedding and you were my bridesmaid and behaved like that I would have ignored you at the wedding and let someone else deal with you. If you pick someone as a bridesmaid they tend to be a good friend and very close to you so you would expect them to respect your wedding day and realise the bride and grooms happiness and them having fun is more important than you acting like a drunken teenager. After the wedding you'd have some making up to do, but if I didn't believe you (because you don't seem remorseful in any way) I wouldnt bother being friends with you anymore
2007-04-01 09:33:50 · answer #4 · answered by starla_o0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh good one. I know that had to be embarrassing but only after the fact. You are lucky you didn't aspirate and choke to death. I wouldn't have let you get that crashed. I would be a little pissed if I were you. The nerve of the bride to get mad, she had the booze and she knew what was happening. Be careful next time you could wind up in the hospital. That's dangerous. looks like you need better friends.
2007-04-04 19:07:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
She should be mad.
You made a fool of yourself at your best friend's wedding.
2007-04-01 09:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, maybe you should watch that movie with Sandra Bullock in it - 28 days. It could give you a little insight to what she was feeling at her wedding. If I were the bride I would have thrown you in the back seat of a car, (without the keys of course), and gone back to my party completely forgetting about you. They should have done something with you. The only thing you can do is apologize and move on. You MEANT to get drunk and have fun but you got drunk and messy.
2007-04-02 02:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by THATgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very immature and irresponsible of you. It was HER day, sure it's ok for you to have a good time but you were there to make her day more special, not take away from it by getting drunk and making a scene. You owe her a very sincere apology.
2007-04-01 07:50:42 · answer #8 · answered by redhairedgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If any of my bridesmaids would have behaved that way at my wedding, it would have been the end of our friendship.
When you pick your bridesmaids, you are asking the people who are closest to you to be there to support you and rejoice with you on your wedding day...you are NOT asking them to come to your weeding, drink all the booze they provided for ALL their guests and then make an a** of yourself! Consider yourself lucky that they left you passed at inside at a table...if you were my bridesmaid I'd have dumped your a** outside!
All I can say is I hope you had to pay for your own bridesmaid dress!
2007-04-01 10:04:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they should be mad, and you are a first class jerk. You ruined what should be one of the best occasions for your friend and his wife, and their respective families, and their friends. You never have fun at someone else's expense. In your case you did at everyone in attendance expense. They let you sit there because, they have some class, something you probably never will have.
2007-04-05 06:07:50 · answer #10 · answered by hazel a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋