The guy i like is 15, is about my height and is very sweet and cute. His gf is almost 17 and is a ditsy blonde. Even though theyve dated for 11 months, all they do is flirt and stuff. ive never even heard them have a conversation before. Me and the guy have conversations that go on for hours and we feel comfortable around each other. Should i try to break them up?
2007-04-01 07:12:18 · 25 answers · asked by shortmellophonegeek 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait for one more month ;)
2007-04-01 07:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, definitely not. If they've been dating for almost 11 months, then once they break up, they will both still be having feelings for each other. And while their relat may seem cutesy and shallow in public, you don't know how it is for THEM. Keep talking to the guy. Be his friend. That's the best you can be at this point, because if you try to break them up, then THAT girl will hate you, and the guy may even get mad because he actually likes her. How are you sure that he will go for you when they break up? And, he probably won't be ready to just jump right into another relationship as soon as they break up. If he does, you don't want to be the "rebound romance." What you should do is find another guy to focus on, if a boyfriend is what you want, because if you break these two up, then you will get a rep as being sneaky and conniving to get what you want, and I'm sure that's not how you really are. But babe, if he liked you, he would have dumped his girlfriend already. There must be something about this girl he likes, whether its physical or personality or whatever else, and if you really do care about this guy, you should really just want him to be happy. I guarantee you they WILL break up eventually; that is just too big of an age difference at this age. If you stick around and just be a great friend, maybe he'll see what he was missing out on when they DO break up. :) Hang in there!
2007-04-01 14:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by Hayden F. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should try to break them up, because that may not work and you would be even more miserable. Maybe you could tell this guy how you feel, maybe he feels the same way? Sometimes a little more patience and waiting works out to your advantage.
OR
Blunt version: get over the guy and move on, find someone who is available
2007-04-01 14:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by midnightminy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you that desparate? you waited 11 months? don't try and break them up. Time will tell and in themean time why don't you find someone that is avaiable and does not have a GF. You wouldn' like it if someone tried to break you up with your BF.
2007-04-01 14:17:13 · answer #4 · answered by chazzz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You wasted 11 months. If he REALLY wanted to be with you you he wouldn't have kept you waiting 1 day. He played you!
2007-04-01 14:18:15 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What? You can't break them up - he doesn't want you. If he did, he probably would've broken up with his girlfriend by now. Why would you even want someone who's been with someone for nearly a year and doesn't talk to her. He's a loser.
2007-04-01 14:18:58 · answer #6 · answered by LSD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you put him into the friend category and focus your attention else where if your looking for love.
If they break up on their own accord then perhaps you can change your friendship status to relationship status.
2007-04-01 14:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by Chris H 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He's obviously not interested if he's still with someone else.
Breaking them up would be an evil thing to do.
2007-04-01 14:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship will break up itself if its not ment to be, dont go trying to break them up, this girl would have it in for u
2007-04-01 14:15:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
find some one who would appreciate you for what you want to be appreciated for
......don't try to break them up
...the boy would lose respect for you
....keep being his friend
...if you choose to keep waiting for him you may be waiting another 11 months... you have to ask yourself is that what you want ...to do keep waiting ? you could be waiting for a very long time ....some relationships can last forever.
Good luck....sometimes it can be difficult
2007-04-01 14:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by lm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shoudlnt be you to do that...it should be him cuz he's the one wit her and if he feels the same way you do he would do it at his own time....also u dont have to wait for someone to get out of a relationship.....90% when peopel do that...it ends up in a disaster....so think before you act....
2007-04-01 14:16:15 · answer #11 · answered by lilruby052001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋