you stayed with him because you loved him and thought that maybe just maybe he might love you too if you treat him right. You knew he liked you but you also knew he loved his ex. He never said anything but you knew, you knew he loved her by the way he looked at her, how he stared at her when you were around, how he got mad when she would talk to other guys, how he got nervous when she came by, how he couldn't take his eyes off of her and bragged to his friends about how he went out with her.
2007-04-01 06:36:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes and it was because I was optimistically thinking that maybe someday he would realize my value or atleast when I'm out of his life he would realize someone had shown him real love and regrets for loosing me in the end...I am not scared to take the risk,but then I am not scared to move on if I think I have already done my very best to win his complete for me alone
2007-04-01 06:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a man who was divorced and had three girls. He was still soooo in love with his ex. I hung around hoping he would see that I made sacrifices to stay with him and e would start loving me more. Only a year after I moved across the country did he realize this. However when we did talk on the phone, he always talked about "her", he just couldn't let go! It is really sad.
2007-04-01 13:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by nicholettejohnson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I was really in love with this guy and he was in love with his ex but I figured I could make him fall for me but he ended up getting her pregnant to try and keep her in his life. At that point I new it was time to move on and I did. I look back on it now and have no idea why I allowed myself esteem to be so low.
2007-04-01 13:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by GoodGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humm... nope, I ran before even starting to date him.
I guess it's your time to run... NOW, good luck girl, you deserve someone much better than that coward who can't get over the past.
2007-04-01 13:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by ma_isa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, No I can't say I have. But after this last girlfriend I had I may be willing to try that.
2007-04-01 13:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by Meatball ;) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i got cheated on repeatedly too over and over again by this guy and ultimately he ended up dumping me!!!! he went right back to her
so if this is about you, then dump him now and save your heart the pain
2007-04-01 13:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I have. I made him make a choice me or her. Well lets just say I can do better than that.
2007-04-01 13:41:46 · answer #7 · answered by Wips and Chains 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. Been there, done that. And it was stupid because he never got over "her". I would never do it again. Godloveya.
2007-04-01 13:40:07 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no just me knowing he loves another girl is enough to send me on my way
2007-04-01 13:41:06 · answer #9 · answered by !!yentruoc!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you're not the only one
2007-04-01 13:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋