i liked this guy, he rejected me then i lost 30 pounds and got down to 119 at 5"7" and im 18 and really pretty. then he started asking me for sex, i told him no, he kept pressuring me, and said that he wasnt looking for a relationship. so i yelled at him. Everytime he sees me he reacts and you can tell that he still likes me. He texted me again just last week. We starting talking and became friends again. I thought that he had changed but i was wrong. He asked me to skip half of school and go to his house and Make-out and mess around. I told him NO. why doesnt he just get it, that i dont want to be used like this, when ive told him several times?? He texts me that night and starting talking aboout sexual things, i told him that i dont want to be used just for sex. He got mad and Now hes not talking to me again...Is it my fault?? what should i do? everyone wut would u do?? Why do i still think that he's worth it tho??
2007-04-01 06:34:27 · 19 answers · asked by gypsy18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Believe me you dont want to talk to this guy.
Hes far from worth it.
And if you still really like him (which I dont know why you would) dont talk to him for a few weeks, then call him and ask if he wants to get together... put on a fat suit and see if he will try to do you. (Which btw, being 149 lb is far from fat especially at 5"7!)
2007-04-01 06:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by Zenthae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out of all the questions I have answer you are a very strong and intelligent person. He's not worth it because if he was he would not pressure you for sex! He is not worth your time he do not respect your feelings or you and he is definitely not your friend it's sounds like he wants you for your body not you or the person you are. He is trouble and he is selfish as well lose his number and him he is not worth it. You are smart and intelligent you deserve someone who excepts and respect your wishes. He will destroy you and all you stand for let him go. He is all about himself and what he wants not what you want he wants sex if it get the sex from you he will leave sooner or later because it is all about sex for him not you. You will lose 30 more pounds if you keep dealing with this guy! You are strong enough to let go just let go but I must warn you he will try to come back sooner or later just be ready and if he don't that would be great.
2007-04-01 06:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by crystal_clear_0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this guy keeps pressuring you to do something that you dont want to do he doesnt really care about you or your feelings he seems to only have been interested in you when you lost the weight and any guy like that is not who you wanna be wasting your time on im sure theres someone out ther whos going to like you 4 the new you so why keep hanging on to someone whos obviously there for only one reason. It always happens like that as soon as you think a guy has changed he lets you down ,u think hes worth all the stress in heartache because u seem to like him for all the right reasons and he likes u for all the wrong reasons which would just be left with amessy break up and alot of regrets so my best advice is to spend time with yourself and see that you really do deserve better.
2007-04-01 07:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by michele m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to give you some advice. You may not like it, but it's probably for the best.
The most important thing you can do right now, is to completely ignore him. Time will make you forget about him. He just wants you for sex. That's it. Just move on with your life and eliminate him from your life. That is the best thing you can do. You obviously have some feelings for him, I would say fear. Since he's not talking to you anymore that's great! Now change your phone number and block him from any means he can contact you.
no it's not your fault. He's not worth the troubles. Think about what would happen if you did get with him. He sounds like someone that would cheat and abuse you. You don't want that now right?
2007-04-01 06:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by Cow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not your fault at all! And props to you for finally being a girl that will stand up for herself! If anything you should be proud for not doing anything you do not want to do. You seem like a very strong willed person and do not lose that because of a h.orny guy..Some guys just don't get it, but maybe he will now...
And its okay that you still have feelings for him, but remember there are SO many other fish in the sea that will actually want to be in a relationship. Don't give in! And who knows, maybe he'll decide he wants a relationship with you too:)
2007-04-01 06:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you are basically stating that this guy is trying to use you for sex, you did the right thing, told him no, yet you are upset because he won't talk to you? Any guy who just wants sex from you is not worth it. Again, any guy who just wants sex from you is not worth it. I know it is hard, but don't even be "friends" with him. If he was really your "friend", he would ask you to hang out and see a movie or whatever, not bug you for sex. He is being very disrespectful to you, and just by talking to him you are allowing it to happen. Trust me, just cut him out of your life, you will be much happier
2007-04-01 06:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason you can't get him out of your head is bc you care about him and feelings arent logical! you need to get away from him, bc as long as you are spending time with him you are going to be thinking about him. whatever you do don't let him pressure you into doing something that you aren't ready for or you dont want! if he's not talking to you then just leave him alone!!! if he texts you just ignore him. i know that it will be hard to do but girl you are worth so much more than to just be a "F-buddy"! There is someone out there who will treat you so much better i just know it but you'll never find him if you don't stay away from this guy and take the time to get over him!
2007-04-01 06:40:00 · answer #7 · answered by Manda P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 18 sex should be involve if you really care for each other,life is to short somethings for us,we are here today and gone tomorrow,who knows what the next day will bring,so why not share with your lover be for it's to late,at one time I would have said differently,no don't do it,but like I said life is to short sometime I have seen many peoples life gone and never knew the feeling.
2007-04-01 06:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about this guy. He's after one thing and one thing only. Once he gets it, you'll be forgotten. I seriously doubt he feels about you the same way you feel about him.
There's is almost no chance of you having some type of permanent relationship with this boy. So, why even put up with him? Sure, you may feel heartbroken if you decide to keep away from him, but it will be worse if you let this guy get closer to you. He'll bring you down for sure.
By the way, if you do decide to keep away from him, he might try acting nicer to you. Be careful. It's just an act. He's only after one thing.
2007-04-01 06:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People typically don't change unless they feel the heat or see the light. He is selfish and is trying to manipulate your feelings to get his way. Know that you deserve the best in life and no one that is out to just get something from you is worth your time or emotional investment. Let him go and make room for someone better. I know its easier said than done but in the long run you will feel better and spare yourself future heartache. If you went along with it in the future when he gets bored and ready for someone else and leaves...AGAIN... you will feel rejected all over AGAIN.
2007-04-01 06:42:35 · answer #10 · answered by ladyd400 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋