Is life bored to stay single when you can't find the right person to be with. Is it right never rush in relationship till you found someone. would you settled down for somebody you don't like just to have a companion.will you be pressured when you see your friends getting married Do you agree with my perception of life?
2007-04-01 05:52:51 · 13 answers · asked by the_road_i_am_on 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I also agree w/ your thoughts as I've had them myself, almost word for word identical thoughts as yours. Personally, I don't want to settle for less, there has to be some kind of "spark" in the relationship. I've had relationships that I knew wouldn't last and I still remember her saying "so we are just spending time together?" and how badly it hurt to tell her the truth. At times I would like to just give in, only a phone call away and have someone here with me again, it would be nice at times. No more lonely, a companion, someone else to occupy the time with, etc. I just know what I want and I have found true love before, the memories of that keep me waiting. It does get old though, I could argue this either way really!
2007-04-01 06:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by xdeffxdiffx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean thats normal i think for a frined to get jealous of a freind getting married especially when your haveing trouble just getting a date but u have to look at this way no ne needs a man or woman by there side yea it feels wonderful but u can do anything an more without someone, some people find there perosn in high school some people wait there whole life everyone has there time. Trust me when u least expect it that person will be rite in front of u, an there will be no question to wat u need to do or say
2007-04-01 13:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by !!yentruoc!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not rush into marriage (although I had my chances) because my friends are already married.
I refused to be with a girl that I do not like just to be married.
life is bored if you stay single but you may find another activities - you may have true friends, you may be religious person, you can make great achievents in your proffesion or job or you can help your community and old people. You can be polite with your relatives and take good care about your father and mother. you can have free time to read books, to surf the Web and to watch TV. you can watch porno movies and date many ladies.
2007-04-01 13:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by Suchness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you on almost everything you said. From life I want security, love, stability (financially and emotionally speaking) and just make the most of it. It can be lonely and boring not to have a companion, but I believe you shouldn't be with someone simply because you don't wanna be alone...but that's a personal matter. I believe that love exists and it is out there for everyone, we just need to be patient. Good luck!
2007-04-01 13:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by shygal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did marry due to pressure and a need for companionship I think yet I am great friends with my husband and we do love each other very much. It's just that while I love my husband, my husband is "in love" with me. I feel guilty about it alot and secretly wonder if I'll be able to stay with him. I miss having passion and romance in my life. I thought I could play it safe and do without it but as it turns out I may have been wrong.
2007-04-01 12:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by Julianna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears that someone needs to venture out more in the world. Make connections, talk to people , let them know you are available, and by no means just take whatever comes along. Show confidence and high self-esteem or those who don't will flock to you!
When you least expect it, it happens!
That may be hard to believe right now, but that is the way it happens! When you aren't looking or even thinking about it..there they are in your face!!
2007-04-01 12:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want a career, an apartment, and a string of equally successful and independent girlfriends. With all of these things, I won't need a boyfriend. Which is good, because I don't want one.
2007-04-01 14:56:29 · answer #7 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually i'm a hermit whose ambition is to attain at least a Masters Degree in Sports & Exercise science. slowly but surely, i'm working towards my goal.
but right now, i'm being lured out of my hermit's lair by a girl.
anyway, it's a hopeless affair...
2007-04-05 09:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, to live with a person they have to be incredibly special to me.
No way I'd move in with a woman "just because".
2007-04-01 12:56:47 · answer #9 · answered by Mortis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would never get together with somone just for fear of dying alone-there has to be at least somthing between us-and if your just being with somone for the sake of it, then its not entirely fair to that person, right? think about it...
2007-04-01 13:01:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋