tell what do you think i should do...i cant stop thinking of him?

Question

i know this guy todd.....amd were friends ,we alk all the time and im in love with his personality...
the down side it that he has a gf and they have been to gether for 3 years
he told me once before that they are so close there just like friends and that there not going to be together for long..i think he will break up with her only if she does something wrong
im in love with the way he treats his gf
the way he sacrifices everything in his life to make the girl he is with happier..he told me he was raised by women and he knows how to treat them
anyway back to the point..he sometimes jokes and says lets go makeout but when i say"ok lets go" ((jokingly coz i know he will back out coz he doesnt cheat))
we talk all the time....when i ever talk to other guys ,he tells me if im trying to make him jelous or something
what should i do .....i always think about him and i feel he likes me...is there a way for me to find out ....

i have gotten a jop offer somewhere else and im afraid if ileave my job ..i will never see him again since we dont i dont have his number do to his gf
what should i tell him on my last day on the job

i have gotten a jop offer somewhere else and im afraid if ileave my job ..i will never see him again since we dont i dont have his number do to his gf
what should i tell him on my last day on the job

I KNOW ITS LONG BUT PLEASE READ

Answer 1

ask for his nmber. you got a big chance to go out with him but sometimes make him feel jealous too. go girl!!!

Answer 2

What you want to hear and what I'm going to tell you are two different things, sorry. When you think about him you get this great feeling inside like your all lit up, I've had that feeling before. It's a release of dopamine into your system and believe or not you can become addicted to that.

The only way to stop thinking about him is to associatte him with something negative like the smell of cat pee. When you catch yourself thinking of him think of the smell of cat pee. You'll be over him in no time at all.

Answer 3

He's been with a gf for three years; that sounds pretty serious to me, as long as you're not still in junior high anyway. I think that if he really liked you, he'd break things off with his girlfriend to at least make himself available in the chance that you'd return his feelings. Of course, it could be possible that he just doesn't want to be alone and isn't sure how you really feel. I'm not sure what to tell you. Sorry! Telling him would definitely resolve the issue, but I'm afriad it might make your friendship awkward as well.

Answer 4

let it go.... it doesn't sound healthy. If he's really so great with his girl friend then why is he sending you mixed signals? Because he can tell that you're into him and he gets an ego boost from your attention. You can do better. You deserve a guy who REALLY knows how to treat a woman-- not one who knows how to manipulate one to get what he wants. Be strong and walk away... he is taking up the space and time and energy you could be devoting to someone who is available to be with you....

Answer 5

I don't think we have any control over whom we find attractive, he sounds like a nice guy. If you really want to know how he feels about you, ask him.

But before you do - let me ask you this. How would you feel if you had been dating someone for three years, were in love with them, and someone tried to come between you? Do you really want to do that to someone else?

Answer 6

ask 1 of his friend's 2 ask him and if he says yeah kind of then tell him how u feel.

Answer 7

true love is not made on somebody else unhappiness. it is wrong to want to be happy hoping that somebody else (his girlfriend) will be unhappy. You are wrong. You should not be the one that will ruin such relationship.
this is not love. this is wanting somebody who is not yours.

Answer 8

go up to him and ask him out

he will go with you

just don't talk as much as you wright

Answer 9

You could just ask.