I mean... WHAT IF... we would fall in love or even hang out ALOT... should I even give it a chance to get to like him.... I just quit and dont' ever want to start again. 2 really awesome guys that smoke asked me out... what to do? (I am 31, single mom and would LOVE to acutally go on a date)
2007-04-01 05:47:58 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hell no
2007-04-01 05:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by cutie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO,you really should not go out on a date with either one of these guys because if you just stopped it may be very easy to get started on smoking again maby you should wait untill you really and truly believe that you would never smoke again no matter how strong the temptations get and if you know in your heart that your ready then GO 4 IT
2007-04-01 05:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by Breezy bri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You CAN have a relationship with a smoker, but it's harder.
I keep hounding my new hubby to quit---I quit 2 1/2 years ago, just before we met.
It bothers me to hear him hacking every morning, but he's courteous enough to not smoke in the house or car out of respect for me.
Go ahead on those dates...if you really click, then you can work around anything!
2007-04-01 05:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a single mom -- I quit 3 days ago -- today is my third day!! it's hard, so congrats on quitting!! DO NOT put yourself in that spot... you know smoking is a lifestyle, and it can become emotional.. if you don't start smoking again by dating one of these guys, you will end up hating the fact that they smoke! do it for you and your kids, and just go for a non-smoker!
2007-04-01 05:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by BellaJ_DDils 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you have the least temptation to smoke if you are around smokers.
If you can tolerate kissing someone with smokers breath, tolerate the smell on their clothing or the smell when they walk by, then date them.
If you have kids, do them a favor and ask the smokers to smoke outside and let the kids decide if they want to smoke or not without being addicted to it already.
2007-04-01 05:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by Carol B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person still smokes and it bugs you, maybe you could get THEM to quit too!!! Quitting smoking is really hard, and chances are the guys would love to quit. Since you stopped yourself, you could go on dates with them while helping them to quit at the same time. Good luck babe :)
2007-04-01 05:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by Penelope L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it in a relationship ur suppose to move up in thworld seeing taht u just quit dating someone that smkes is a big influeence on you an most likly ur stat smoking again because ull be surrounded by it when ever ur boyfrined is aorund and that would bring u down, ur suppose to move up with anybody
2007-04-01 05:56:12 · answer #7 · answered by !!yentruoc!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you really need a man then just do it but u have to tell him your expectations and tell him that u just quit. AS u guys get closer, then start telling him that he should think about not smoking. If he really loves you then he will do it. And your still young you'll probably have way more opportunities.
2007-04-01 05:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by CooCoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had just quit, wait a little while. then you can start to hang out with them, and while hanging out, try to convince them to stop smoking. If he asks you to smoke, smack him in the face, throw bricks at him, and leave him. (Don't do the first 2 parts, just the last lol)
2007-04-01 05:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by JD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only go on the date if you know you have enough will-power to not smoke when you're with them. Let them know right off the bat that you just quit and would like to keep it that way, so they don't offer you one. Insist on sitting in the nonsmoking section of wherever you go, and just let them go off to smoke when they need to. If you can't do this, don't date them.
2007-04-01 05:51:32 · answer #10 · answered by becki5ive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you have to consider yourself, do you really want to be surrounded by that type of lifestyle. After all, being that you just "quit", you'll easily be attempted to start back now that you are with someone who is smoking.
Everyone has their preference of who to do, I personally wouldnt want to date a smoker
2007-04-01 05:54:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋