I want to check these 2 numbers, one my husband has dialed and the other called in and hung up with no message. He is supposed to be at his parents' house in a small city but when I did a free search, the numbers are in a smaller town that doesn't even have a Wal-mart. Should I pay to find out who these 2 numbers belong to? He claimed to me that he was just going there and then coming back, maybe eating breakfast there.
Should I call the numbers? If so what do I say if it's another woman's number? He should be back by now if he was doing just what he said he was doing. I've had problems in this area before.
Now that I'm up, should I just drop by his parents' house? But then we might just miss each other.
No matter how I look at it he'll just have another excuse.
2007-04-01 05:03:22 · 12 answers · asked by deva s 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Call his parents and ask to speak to him.
If he was there, but then left, they could tell you what time he left. You should know how long it takes him to get him home, and, therefore, whether or not he stopped somewhere.
If he was never there, you can confront him about why he felt the need to lie to you about what he was really doing; even if he was doing something perfectly innocent, he still deceived you.
And, if he's still there, you can talk to him about whatever you desire, and ask what time he plans on coming home.
2007-04-01 05:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by jtrusnik 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have nothing to lose, really, if you dial the numbers yourself. Call the number and when someone answers say that you've been receiving crank calls from that number and you would like some explanations. Of course, do it in a courteous way, don't be rude.
If you can, strike up a conversation and find out a few little details about the person. If you find the person to be suspicious, when your husband comes home, tell him you dialed two numbers that were crank calling. Then tell him about the conversations you had - if any. Ask if he knows these numbers. Then if he says "no", he's hiding something.
If you need more ways to be "innocently curious", feel free to drop me a line.
2007-04-01 12:15:46 · answer #2 · answered by Joa5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh My Goodness.
Well, it seems that you believe your husband is cheating on you. As far as whether you should call that number back-go ahead and call. Just be calm and say "Hi, did someone call my number?, I think I just missed the call?". People usually do that.
As far as your husband, you cant live your life like this. You cant keep going everywhere he goes, calling back every wrong number that calls your home, showing up at his parents house--you just cant live like that.
The bottom line is that you need to sit down and have a long talk with your husband--or maybe you 2 need counceling. A relationship has to have Trust. You have to feel confident that your husband is not lying and decieving you everytime he walks out the door. If you feel that you cant trust your husband, if you husband had proven that he can not be trusted over and over agian--maybe you should re-think whether or not this marriage is good for you. Dont waste the best years of your life on a man who can't be trusted.
And cheaters usually dont change. Even if you show up at eveyr place he is sopposed to be--he could STILL cheat on you. Oprah says that she know wives who constantly call their husbands cell phone asking where they are--and the husband will be sitting next to his new girlfried, telling his wife he'll be home soon. So, you are wasting your precious time and energy.
Peace
2007-04-01 12:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know the true roots of your marriage and how strong the foundation is. You really do have to trust your gut on this. I would have some serious thinking to do if I trusted my own husband so little that I felt the need to check up on him that way.
2007-04-01 12:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by Theresa S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've had these problems before, so you know already what you're going to find at the other end of those numbers.
If you're willing to leave him or fight to make it work-investigate this.
If you prefer to not go through it again-forget about it.
I've been in that situation before, and I've never been sorry about leaving the relationship. Only you can know what it is best for you. Good luck.
2007-04-01 12:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by iamnoone 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do what Bob DeNiro did when he suspected Sharon Stone of cheating on him in Casino. Ask him what they had for dinner last night then call his mother in his presence (you can even call her before that time). Movies have ALL the answers.
Good luck.
2007-04-01 12:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a *****, as well as a worthless emotion. If your husband is cheating, call it a day on the marriage or else let him cheat with your full knowledge. Jealousy will eat you alive and it's just not worth that.
2007-04-01 12:08:02 · answer #7 · answered by cidni 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Trust.
2007-04-01 12:08:36 · answer #8 · answered by Fish <>< 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do an online reverse number look-up
it wont pull up cell numbers tho
does anyone know how to look up cell numbers?
2007-04-01 12:07:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go tell Oprah, go tell Oprah.
2007-04-01 12:06:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋