im a christian but im going out with this guy who isnt. my best friend went out with him but dumped him because he wasnt a christian. she said she didnt mind me going out with him as its over 6 months since they went out but now shes telling me to dump him cause hes not a christian. should i go out with him? and is my friend just jealous that im going out with her ex?
2007-04-01 04:31:10 · 15 answers · asked by flutterfly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow ur friend is really faithful to Jesus, man.......ending a relationship because of that stupid reason.
u two will be together becoz u hav the same topic to chat with, same interest, same personal characters and feelings of mutual appreciation but not the same religion.....
u know what i do not believe in god, atheism but i know that according to holy bible if u can convince a guy to become a christian, it is better than u are a faithful christian.
well, it is not fair to that guy and u also. u cant say that he must not be the Mr. Right of urs.....when u miss the chance, u might regret for a few years........
hey girl, hav a good think about it. Dun be the victim of peer pressure...
cheers
Robin
2007-04-01 04:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by robinvanaugusta 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The problem is not to be with a person that is or not your religion, a problem is that other religions have different understandig of life, marriage, women, children and rites which afects deeply your life´s style, Jews and Christian have huge similaritys as they put women and children before them, for muslims the man is almost the one and only and they can tell you good by without a reason even after marriage at any time and their value and treatment about women is wuite different, many cases, many, many, some of them can initially behave at "western" style but then change very much and push to live their own way, so is a desition that has to come from you, you live your life as you want...
2007-04-03 09:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, does it matter whether he's a Christian or not or what your friend thinks? You need to go with your feelings and make your own mind up on this one. After all, the worst thing that could happen is that the relationship (if you decide to have one) doesn't work out. Which is true of most relationships, anyway.
2007-04-01 11:41:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't said that YOU want to dump him, so it sounds like your relationship is fine--the real problem is your best friend. I think that she's jealous, and that's why she wants you to dump him. I suggest you have a heart-to-heart conversation with her about it. As your best friend, she should be happy that you're happy. Christianity is not the issue here--her jealousy is.
2007-04-01 11:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by Winnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect for other people`s Religion goes a long way in a relationship the fact that he isn`t a Christian shouldn`t enter into the equation unless there`s a problem where his belief interferes with yours?Are you a Devout Christian in which case I could see where your friend is coming from?
2007-04-01 11:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u shouldn't dump him just because your friend tells you...if u really like him u shouldn't let anyone else influence your decision...also the whole religion thing is ridic, now with so many different types of people and religions that is something that should not get in the way...just play it out and see what he really is like and if it doesn't work it was meant to be...
2007-04-01 11:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by brr 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well a true christian would not get jelous of thier best friend and would not tell you to break up with him if you are truly happy. and just b/c he is not a christian does not mean that you should break up with him. cuz you never no maby you could get him saved bring him to your church and talk to him about god you never no but he could decide to become a christian to and then both of u could be christians. as for your friend just tell her that you are happy with him and she should be happy for you even if he is her ex. hey she told you that she did not like him and that you could go out with him so i think that you should stay with the guy ask him if he wants to go to church and talk to your friend about how she should be happy for you and not jelous. but if your bf doe not want to become a cristian then you cant force him to but if you stay with him then you might end up growin on him . hope i helped googd luck n god bless
2007-04-01 11:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by ~I Love Allen~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Christian, but not a brainwashed Christian. Are we not all God's children?
2007-04-01 20:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by barnowl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you guys like each other a lot then maybe u can try it out...i once went out with a guy who was born again and i wasn't at first it wasn't a problem but it eventually became one as he wanted me to be born again and i felt if i were to do it, it wont be b'cos of him....so its really up to u guys
2007-04-01 11:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by Nokuthula 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's that thing in the Bible about not going out with other people unless they are Christian also.
Sort of depends on whether you believe in that.
Otherwise, make up your own mind.
2007-04-01 11:34:37 · answer #10 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋