you are married? be honest.. How many just fantizie about it?
2007-04-01 04:08:30 · 10 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Melanie,
When I was married, I never even considered the thought of
having an affair with anyone other than my wife. But things
have changed perspectives now that I'm "single" again. My
mind often plays with the idea of dating almost every woman
who comes into my life. I don't keep a "score card", so there
isn't any competition at all.
Lately it seems, my daydreams are just fantasies.! Women
aren't drawn to me like they were several years ago.
2007-04-01 04:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by SlownEasy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope never.I am happily married and I took my wedding vows very seriously.I also have more respect for myself and for my husband to ever do something as degrading as having an affair..People that have have affairs are nothing more then insecure pond scum...I have no need to fantasize about any other man because my husband satisfies and fulfills all my need's...
2007-04-01 11:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course i/we do ,it's only natural and that moment presented itself once or twice and as flattered as i was and was almost tempted by one i just didn't think 20 minutes in the hay with someone was worth throwing away 15 years of marriage.I really love my family and would never do anything to hurt them but i always tease my daughter when she watches the country videos that when a cute guy is on...i always tell her i wouldn't mind parking my boots under his bed...she just rolls her eyes and tells me i'm sick ...lol
2007-04-01 11:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by Dodgegirl62 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way i see it some people fantasize about it and just keep it as a fantasy. Where others are more like "what if" and actually go ahead and do it. I have thought about it and realized that there's no point to it pursuing it so i just let it be... its up to you if you want to...
2007-04-01 11:18:42 · answer #4 · answered by NENA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have a saying in spanish... "el matrimonio es como el demonio" meaning marriage is like hell..... i wouldnt do marriage ever...so it was ur mistake, u should a known that most likely u wouldnt be able to do anything with other guys because u already tied the knots. however, i see 2 options for u... one-which i dont really recommend you- u could be unfaithful to ur husband. or the other option is that u tell him how u feel-which i do recommend- tell him u would like to experience something new, a threesome maybe... tell him u love him with all ur heart but u would like to do something with other guys -preferably if u both trust the guy- and tell him that whatever his decision is, that u really love him, and that u dnot really wanna bring any problems into othe relationship, but u would like to experience something new, and u havent cheated on him, and that s why u r telling him, because he doesnt deserve u cheat on him.. and if he doesnt agree with that, with the threesome and whatever, tell him u ll respect the decision, and its alright... because u love him, and that u wouldnt cheat on him... BUT if i were u, and he disagreees with the threesome... i would be unfaithful, even if i told him i wouldnt... why?? because i d still love him, just that i want something new, out of the routine... find pleasure doing things differently...gud luck, and hope he'll be up for the threesome.
2007-04-01 11:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we all fantasize about it. Now, what you do is a different story. I have never and would never. I have wondered though. Sometimes being honest with yourself is pretty brutal in itself, isn't it?
2007-04-01 11:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your thoughts on the Lord and off of fornication or adultery.
2007-04-01 11:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh the fantasy is always there. We are not dead. But honor, trust and loyalty are a must!
2007-04-01 11:18:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm have but no married been with alot of married women though
2007-04-01 11:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
2007-04-01 11:11:32 · answer #10 · answered by CNT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋