He said it was rough nooky - or was it rap?

Question

e? My ex wants to get back with me. We broke up when he had an argument because he said I was flirting with some other guy. He ended up punching the other guy and we had to leave the club. We went back to my bf's place and in bed he attempted to say sorry and we began kissing and making up. But when he insisted that I was flirting I got the hump and back off. He then demanded that I open my legs because I had got him going; I just starred back defiantely but then he just prised my legs open and entered me forcefully. I admit that I did come, but got up and spent the night in the living room. When I spoke to him in the morn he was apologetic but insisted that it was just rough sex and not rape. He seemed v upset that I should say these things about him. Admittedly after 2 yrs of dating he has never done anything like this before. Now he has been in contact and wants to get back together.and I am not sure. Should I tell the police, forget about it or what?

Answer 1

Thats on you and what you expect from you man. I mean if you expect them to act like kids and do whatever they what with you, yea you got him on the right road. Now if you want a deep, fullfilling relationship with someone who you can trust then you might want to get rid of him because he's going to make it hard on you to find a better guy.... the other thing is that your not willing to blame this guy and leave which shows that this type of behavior isn't beyond what you expect from the opposite sex... which means that you might have some issues with males in general... good luck with that... simply put this isn't any where next to the right thing to do in a relationship and you should hit the ground running. But I'm not ignorant enough to believe that this is the single worse stuff he has done in your relationship so your use to this type of thing... atleast your acting like you do... love yourself... honestly do you feel you deserve this type of guy?