I am in relation only for few month ..
But lately my boyfriend willing to see me everyday..
Of cause is very nice for me ( I really like him) ,
The little problem for me that I feel too tiered after work.. ..
Also, I am wandering.. Don’t he become too close to me??
Or More importantly …..he can become bored from with me ??
Also I don’t understand such behaviour…
What does this situation means?
2007-03-31 23:46:16 · 11 answers · asked by awg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't married people see each other every day?
Woudln't this mean that he isn't bored with you and in fact so stimulated by you that he wants to be with you so much.
Just cause your boyfriend is "willing" to see you everyday does not mean you have to see him all the time. If you want to see him tell him and if you are tired because you work tell him. As your boyfriend he should understand if you are tired.
I would think that you would want to become close to this guy and spend lots of time with him when you have the energy. Maybe your previous relationships were with guys who were not able to invest as much time into you as this guy. I think it just means he really enjoys being with you... is that so bad?
you are in control. You tell him when he can visit and when he can't. he is just saying he can spend time with you; he is giving you the option. As a courtesy, let hm know when you are too tired to spend time with him and try to set aside time for him even though you work.
2007-03-31 23:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by Don Quesadia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, in my opinion: You have already seen one another for a few months. That must mean that he likes you even more, as he want to see you more. But, you don't have to spend all free time with him. You are tires after work, go home and sleep for a couple of hrs before you see him. Spend some hrs together in the evening, doing normal things together. And, if you like him, why are you afraid of him getting too close to you. That is the whole idea with building a relationship, is it not? If you are meant to be together, he will not be bored of you. It's only one way to find out..
But, I also have another thought in my head. How is the living conditions for the two of you? Maybe he wants to move in....? And that is a little bit early just after a few months.
I can not see anything wrong of seeing your BF every day if both of you feel the same way about it. Sooner or later you might spend the rest of your lives together, so why not find out if you are meant for each other?
2007-03-31 23:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by Festblues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my bf for 18 months and since we have been together we see each other 6 days a week! and its wonderful, if you really love someone it can work. But its entirely up to you, if you think he is going too fast and you dont want to see him everyday, then just tell him.. But i am sure he wont get bored of you!
I think its a good sign that he wants to see you everyday, it shows he is keen on you and wants to spend time with you! Wouldnt you be more upset if he was trying to avoid seeing you???
2007-03-31 23:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just enjoyes spending time with you so much that he is bored without you. But if you do not want to see him everyday then just don't do it!
I actually think it is not good to see the boyfriend every day. Everybody has to keep his and her own life. You two shouldn't just hang out together. You also should still meet other friends and spent some time alone.
I think you two wouldn'T become bored from hanging out together it is just that you two could forget how do anything without each other and you could become totally dependent from each other!
2007-03-31 23:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by mc_fly_11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good point. I know he really want to see you everyday but he could be hurting your future feelings over this daily ritual of seeing each othe. Gently explain to him that you need to rest and do some of your "girly" things and you would apprecitate it if he would give you some space.
Believe me..if you were married you would not have to ask him to do this...this is a universal problem..so ask your G/F that have long term relationships what they do?
2007-03-31 23:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u are thinking of not seeing everyday thats a good idea but also consider that the less he sees u the more he could lose interest plus other girls throwing themselves at him is a very serious decision to make so u have to careful
2007-04-01 00:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by combs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's try to get close to you.
Maybe his intention is to have sex, no offence.
But sooner or later this behaviour will get repetitive & u'll get bored.
To keep the relation more exciting, meet him once or twice & maximum thrice a week.
Atleast that's wot I think.
Hope that helps you.
2007-03-31 23:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by Akaash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id like to see my gf everyday if you get bored of each other your not going to last anyway
2007-03-31 23:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by Lee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that maybe he hasn´t had too many girlfriends, and now that he has one, he is afraid of loosing you, so he wants to be with you everyday, nothing wrong with that, enjoy, he means it.
good luck
2007-03-31 23:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by mannyslv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes everyday can wear on your relationship.
2007-03-31 23:48:28 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋