He has stolen from my parents for years now hes got her living with him and brain washing her that I was the thief i the family, when him and his wife are money hungry animals and won't let me see my own mom. Now hes so greedy and don't want me to have anything, put her house for sale. And she has him on power of attorney, before she wanted to lock him up for fraud, him, and his wife stold there identity, way before dad died in July. Hes a Robber and a CREDIT CARD thief. Stold there savings when he was power of attorney. Now she let him be again.
2007-03-31 23:27:20 · 11 answers · asked by chris k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I wouldn't do anything, if mom is dumb enough to beleive whatever he says, more power to her. Don't come crying to me when he does her dirty and he will.
2007-04-01 00:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately I dont know that there is much you can do, if your mother has willingly given him power of attorney. I find myself in the reverse of the situation that you are in, in that my mother has given me her power of attorney as she know full well that my sister is untrustworthy and would rob her blind and I spend a good part of my life protecting mum from her. I worry that my sister will fast talk her way back into her life (which she is slowly doing) and will put mum in a home when she doesnt need to be. I do not envy you your situation as it may end up mine in the future. You can only try to get your mother alone and talk to her. She may feel she has no other option as old ladies really need someone to lean on and if they have to they will go to the person who has not got their best interests at heart if they feel they are the only ones who will have them. My sister has done some of the most evil things you could possibly imaging to my family and my parents and yet they always in the end forgive her. Now that my father has past away it is even harder. Mum says that she knows my sister is no good and not trustworthy but she is still her daughter. I say that there is no way I will let my sister back into my life or the lives of my children as she has done enough harm, but with mum insisting on having stuff to do with her it brings all the traumas into our lives anyway.
If your brother has gotten this foothold and you cannot get your mother away, you can only hope that you are there to pick up the pieces when nothing is left.
But I do know how you feel.
2007-03-31 23:38:56 · answer #2 · answered by auburn 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it's that bad, you can go to the police.
If it's something you think you can resolve with your family, you need to talk to your mom. Tell her exactly what happened and what's happening now. If she's under his powers, talk to other members of your family who she respects. Like uncles or grandparents. Let them influence her and help her see what's happening.
2007-03-31 23:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by brand_new_monkey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there is nothing you can do. Since she has made him power of attorney and isn't willing to change it.
All you can do is hope you can see her and discuss the awful situation with her and maybe change her mind.
Good Luck.
2007-04-01 00:25:53 · answer #4 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say that there is nothing that you can do outside of being availiable for her when she comes running back to you. If you say anything bad about your brother to her now it will only distance you two further. Just remember her birthday and try to stay in contact keep any conversation civil. Good luck
2007-04-01 00:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by orcarius 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Write your mom a letter and ask to take her out to lunch.....this can give you time together without all that rabid money hungry behavior in the midst.
2007-04-02 03:33:44 · answer #6 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the bank and have them check your moms account for irregularities and they will contact your mom. If you want to see your mom call the adult protective services and explain your circumstances to them and get recommendations from then on how to proceed.
2007-03-31 23:31:47 · answer #7 · answered by Dennis G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the tech 9
2007-03-31 23:30:20 · answer #8 · answered by russell h 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
See a lawyer.
2007-03-31 23:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he stole your parents because he knew you didn't need them?
maybe he's a baby and you're the responsible one who is independent. ever think of that?
2007-03-31 23:29:29 · answer #10 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋