as in 30-40 yrs older, i dont know ive just never been attracted to a guy my own age, not even once my friends think thats weird and i guess it is but i just like older men!!
im already 18 so no lectures please :p
2007-03-31 23:24:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Historically speaking, it’s not that unusual. The most important thing is loving each other and obeying God’s laws.
2007-03-31 23:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by Gaius Julius Caesar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you can decide if you want to follow your heart, or live your life according to what is socially acceptable.
When I was 21, I had a relationship with a man of 46. Everyone we knew thought he was using me for sex, and that I was using him for money. The truth was neither. We genuinely cared for one another. We didn't care one way or the other, and both learned to just laugh it off when someone made a rude comment. The relationship ended when I moved to a different city. After that, I dated men of different ages, but have always found men in their mid- to late-forties the most attractive.
I've found that older men have many qualities difficult to find in someone younger--they are usually more settled financially, professionally, and emotionally.
Because your interest is in men so much older, should you get involved with someone that age, you need to think long and hard about what would happen if you had children. Most men won't want to have a child in grade school when they should be thinking about retirement, nor is it fun to have a dad who can't play football with them.
As for the comment about not being able to find older men when you get older, it isn't men 25 years older than me that I find attractive, it's still men in their forties.
2007-04-01 01:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by S C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's an extreme age difference but I don't see anything really wrong with it. It may be more difficult to find common interests and when you're ready to have kids, they may be sending their grandchildren to college. The biggest problem will come later. Men don't usually live as long as women and with them having so much of a head start, you could easily be widowed in your 20s. Hopefully, as you age, you will be attracted to men closer to your own age because when you are 70, there will be very few men who are that much older.
2007-04-01 00:04:34 · answer #3 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You relate who you relate to. There is probably some deep seeded reason why you like older men, but their is a deep seeded reason why I think guys with dark hair and blue eyes are it.
You should love who you love, and don't let other tell you who to love. It wouldn't hurt to search your heart and soul and try to find the root of this desire, but there is nothing wrong with it.
Old men are typically more stable, and better able to provide for a family than guys your age, and their is a biology drive in women to look for that.
Your friends and family will worry that you are being taken advantage of, and the guys family will think your taking advantage of him. Just love one another and ignore anyone who doesn't agree. I'd just refuse to take part in any discussion the guy I like is wrong for me, if I know he isn't.
2007-04-01 01:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by Mitzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i like older man 2. I always found them much more sexyer. I don't feel bad ab it now wirerd. Some of us are just like that. You just have to accept it. Alsio it would be good to watch out who you are dating because many older man can only want u for your body! But hey i think this is applicable to younger men also.
2007-04-01 00:54:08 · answer #5 · answered by butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is only a number and when u find that special person that number means nothing. myself i only like younger women and that number really doesn't matter to me its the person that does and i think that's where u need to start and i think that u will be much happier in life. hope this helps hunterdoc
2007-03-31 23:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by hunterdoc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its fine to like who you like everyone has a type i wrote on here once that i liked brown boys and i had a bunch of people saying i was a bigot and i should not like people for how they look but if i was a man who said i like blonds then nobody would have a problem with it everyone has a type but for some reason people just don't get it
2007-03-31 23:29:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl, you can fu... them which is what you want to experience, but after you will see that there is nothing like having one your age, which you guys can be friends, lovers, everything, and with those older guys there is just one roll to play, it´s yours, of cheap prostitute. you can try, but you will see its not interesting, trust me, they are tired, old, and full of problems, nothing like being young..
good luck
2007-03-31 23:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by mannyslv 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it against others tradition
but, still none of their business
you like men that old in bed and life
make me wish I wasn't with wife........hawhaw
2007-03-31 23:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay if you can take it. When he's 60 how old will you be. Figure that!
2007-03-31 23:28:01 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋