m in love with a girl that is totaly the oposite of me she loves to party and never invites me. loves to drink every weekend she goes out. i know this girl for one year i was her first now sex is greate. she calls to say she loves me shes always with me on weekdays but like i said on the weekends i cant find her. i know shes not with me for money, she works and goes to school i dont know what to do? should i leave her or what? every time shes with me she recives me with hugs and kisses and tell me she loves me and how much she thinks about me. im confuse.shes not my type but i love her. girls what do you think she wants from me? and what to do?or can she change?if so how can itell herto change?
2007-03-31 23:14:22 · 5 answers · asked by sweet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First thing, I don't think a girl should change for a guy. But i would directly confront her with the weekend thing. Why she doesn't invite you and so forth. I mean you have a right to know, your her lova and you have feelings as well right? Maybe she just doesn't want to confront you with something she is embarrassed of, like a situation that turns out to be awkward which would be really humiliating for her in front of you. Just talk to her, you haven't got anything to lose right? ;)
2007-03-31 23:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by Petite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. I think she likes to party a whole lot more than you do. Weekdays may be fine, but there are 7 days in a week and she can't turn into party girl on the weekends and leave you behind. Not a good relationship.
2007-04-01 06:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just likes to party with her friends and she knows u dont like it so she doesnt invite u. If u want to go with her just tell her.
Dont dump her before u have talked about it, tell her how u feel.
2007-04-01 06:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make somebody change if they don't want to. Open up a dialogue with her about her weekends and see what's up.
2007-04-01 06:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by Roni L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell her to change. The only one who can make her change is herself, and it doesn't sound like she wants to change.
And it does sound like all she sees in you is a life-support system for a d1ck. Sorry.
2007-04-01 06:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋