Is it wrong or bad for a girl to want, or think she wants it "in the backdoor". I had to say it like that so Yahoo would put it up there because I just asked this and they didn't put it up and I want to know. So I hope you all know what I mean.
2007-03-31 14:49:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, everyone is entitled to their own desires. There's many guys out there trying to convince their partners for just that so you're going to appeal to many men
2007-03-31 14:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by hewzy15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong at all. It's natural. Many females enjoy having it done, as you put it, in the backdoor. Guys really enjoy when they act on putting it in the backdoor. Nothing weird about it.
2007-03-31 14:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by Aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT IS NOT WRONG at all :)
there nothing wrong with wanting to try new things
if a guy can want it
its for sure okay for a girl to want it to
its her "backdoor" she should want it if shes gonna get it there
2007-03-31 14:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by twnkled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The obvious answer to this question is "just ask", but most teens are not comfortable being that forward. FYI: lots of people think it is very sweet and romantic to be asked, something like, "I really like you and would love to kiss you right now, may I?" usually gets the message across in a nonchalant kind of way. If you don't feel suave enough to pull this off there are some clues to be found in body language. If somebody is open to being kissed they are likely to sit close to you, smile and laugh a lot, lick their lips, run their fingers through their own hair or yours, touch your arm, shoulder or face, and frequently tilt their head. Other tell-tale signs include suggestions that the two of you go somewhere private or quiet, that you go somewhere to be alone, or that you go someplace to talk. Maybe s/he will beat you to the punch and ask you to kiss them... stranger things have happened.
2007-03-31 14:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by lala 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's uncommon for American girls to want it, however it is pretty common in other places (like Brazil.)
Make sure to use lube though, it can hurt (for both people) otherwise.
I don't think it's morally wrong, but some religions might. Lots of people are at the very least curious.
2007-03-31 14:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by Vegan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. There's nothing wrong or kinky about it. It's just that most women don't like it because it is so painful.
If it doesn't cause you any pain, then go ahead and enjoy it.
It's by no means amoral.
What happens in the bedroom is ok as long as both people enjoy it.
2007-03-31 14:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by Molly 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with it nor bad. However, it may be painful for some. Go try it and if you don't feel comfortable change position.
2007-03-31 14:53:16 · answer #7 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means your Human. Welcome to sexuallity. Don't be embarrassed for being normal.
Younger people may feel a sense of abnormality the first time
experimenting. Go for it! If you don't like it don't do it again.
Thats between you and your partner.
2007-03-31 15:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if thats were you want it, its all good. but it hurts and it bleeds and you can easily get HIV from getting it in the backdoor. LOL
2007-03-31 14:54:22 · answer #9 · answered by brooklynchicabonita 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would it be wrong? It's a preference. We all like what we like. But, no, it not wrong. Some guys actually like giving it in "the back door."
2007-03-31 14:53:53 · answer #10 · answered by YouGotTold 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋