My cousin doesn't live near me and i can't help her. can you give me some tips please. Ok. her ex won't leave her alone. he hits her, touches her in bad places, hurts her, assaults her, and kisses her and tries to get her into bed with him. the school and the police won't do anything. It's getting worst and she has a boyfriend. He can't do anything either bacause, like me, he's in another state. Please help.
thanks!
2007-03-31 13:22:28 · 6 answers · asked by Arya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all she must own up to the fact that this guy is a jerk and stop protecting him by not giving the police the full story.She must like the negative attention she is receiving or she has watched it as a child and think it is the norm.
If this a**hat has bruised her or left any kind of mark,that is an offense that can and will get him arrested if only she tells the truth and reports it promptly.Her only other solution is to find someone like me that will give him one bad beat down.
2007-03-31 13:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by Charles T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, she needs to leave. Are they living together? How is he touching her? Is she letting him in the house? She needs to keep the doors locked. Call the police and tell them she has an intruder. The police can do something since he hits her, all she has to do is file a report and get him arrested and file a restraining order against him. She needs to go directly to a hospital and get medical attention and the police will help her there. I will say a prayer for her for her strength to follow through with filing a police report and restraining order. She can do it.
2007-03-31 20:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is this bad she needs to leave the school! She shouldnt be there anyways if the school doesnt care about it's students. Maybe have her mom call the police next time theyre more likely to believe the mother. And if for some reason this doesnt work then she should carry mace with her! If the school doesnt do anything about that guy then they cant get her in trouble for carrying mace for self defense!
2007-03-31 20:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ cute by accident ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The police and the school can't do anything because she isn't telling them. If she wants help she'll need to press charges. Tell her to ask for a desk Sergent if the officer that comes won't take a complaint. Better yet, she should go to the station.
He can't get her into bed if she isn't near a bed. Why is she hanging around this fellow if she doesn't want him? Tell her to stop playing games with herself, and with you!
2007-03-31 20:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes sounds like a freak needs to try the police again!
2007-03-31 20:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by brianna<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its simple have her call the cops, tell her boyfriend to call the cops or you call the cops
this is a very serious situaton and shouldnt be taken likely
2007-04-01 12:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by nascarfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋