ok, there's this guy, he came new into the school and i was one of his first few friends...time went by, he got MANY friends. Then he told me he liked me, but never asked me out, coz he thought i didnt like him that way, i didnt think so either. then months went by...then he told me he dosent like me anymore. Then after some weeks we had a fight. i didnt talk to him for a very long time (5 ot 6 days) and then recently, he called me and said sorry and we're now friends again ( i could TELL he missed me) and now, i've realised i do like him more than a friend...but the problem is...i dont know if he still does...what do you think? should i tell him or not? i dont want to make things awkward between us...
PLEASE HELP! i really really REALLY like him!!!
p.s. im in high school.
2007-03-31 13:10:04 · 21 answers · asked by crazykatie! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i cant flirt with him HE HATES FLIRTS
2007-03-31 13:15:28 · update #1
I would just tell him how you think you are feeling, but dont try to come on too strong and if he doesnt reciprocate the feelings. I'm sure he still has some feelings for you, but he might have "gotten over" you from your first rejection of him. Just be honest with him. If he rejects you just play it off and act like it didn't happen. If you make it awkward it will be awkward, but if you act like nothing happened he might act awkward for a little while, but he will eventually start acting normal. I hope everything turns out for the best! Good luck!
2007-03-31 13:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by mgarrett587 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he likes you, he probably just said he doesn't anymore to save face and not look lame trying to get with a girl that doesn't want to be with him.
Now he took the time to call u and apologize so you guys could be friends again, I am positive he likes you. Just hang out with him a lot and flirt with him and let him know that you dig him. He will get the hint. Most likely he will respond.
2007-03-31 20:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by Kristine R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be straight w/ him. If he isn't into you anymore, well, now you know. and if he is... all the better. And if he doesn't like you, it should not affect your relationship as friends... if he is a good guy, he will realize that you don't have to throw away a good friendship over an awkward moment. And yes, if he doesn't like you, it might make for a very awkward moment... be ready to diffuse it with sumthin like "well, will you at least go to a movie tonight as my consolation prize - just friends?"
2007-04-04 18:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The resolution to this is going to require you to be BOLD - if you're up to it. OK?
The next school day here we go:
First shower and scrub until you're as fresh as sunshine, then on with the make-up - just enough to accentuate your already incredible beauty. Then slip into something that will set off your great figure, and last - pop your brightest smile in your mouth, and best sparkle in your enchanting eyes.
Now off to school to find this lucky fellow. Ah there he is. Now turn on the charm, give him that 1000 watt smile and batt those gorgeous eyes a little - not too much - you don't want him getting lost in them. There now I see you've got his attention - here he comes. (God you smell great!)
So now he's there right before you, you take hold of his shirt front with both hands, or wrap your arms loosely around his waist, and give him a coy smile, and say "There you are, I've been looking for you". He says "Oh Yeah? What About?"
Now at this point you have two choices:
1. You can kiss him like you've always imagined it should be, just put your whole self into it, and then pull back and say " God I've wanted to do that for such a long time" " I could just eat you up, what do you say big boy - want to keep this up - some where more private?"
2. You say "I wanted to talk to you about us - you and me, I've been stupid, I've missed you, I want you, I want us - you and me - to be together, I think about you all the time, I want to hold you, kiss you, touch you, hear you call my name, touch my face, my hair , be my lover. I want to be yours, and I want you to be mine. I don't want to spend another day without you in it.
From there on in it's up to you. Sometimes Little sister you have to just say "What the hell, and go for it. "Be BOLD". A Man likes that in a woman - a woman who knows what she wants, and steps up to the plate and says so. I think you'll have him so turned on over you he won't know what to say - but it will be good. Good Luck.
I'm pulling for you,
2007-03-31 20:59:27 · answer #4 · answered by jtrall25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him more than friends then you should tell him how you feel. Don't wait for him to make the first move, if you do, you might regret what will happen in the future. Rejection won't be easy to indulge, but at least you'll find an answer to your question.
P.S If you decide to tell him please do it in person. People tend to send sms messages instead and it makes the guy freak.
Good Luck!
2007-03-31 20:15:15 · answer #5 · answered by heavydeezy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best way to go. Search these feelings and explore them with him. All he can do is turn you down, but NOTHING is more worse than wondering what could have been. Tell him that you dont want to lose the riendship, but you want to discover something more with him. If he doesnt, tell him thats ok too, but heres the other part..
...BE OK WITH IT!!!
You have to be able to accept the answer no matter what it is.
2007-03-31 20:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by atlazdrama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! He told you that he liked you...he probably still likes you. You will never know if you don't ask him.....just be casual...say that you are glad to be friends again but you have realized that you like him more than a friend...does he still feel the same?
Good luck
2007-03-31 20:16:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't flirt, as you know that he doesn't like it. Ask him out. You can use the fight as an excuse, and tell him that you want to make it up to him. See if he picks up the ball.
2007-03-31 20:21:16 · answer #8 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do things that would make him think his feelings over you again. And if you're too shy to ask let someone like who knows him like a guy friend ask him,then you make your feelings stand out more. And,he'll realize you like him back.
2007-03-31 20:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by Jesika 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirt and such. You don't have to just walk up and say, "So I realized that I have this HUGE crush on you and... blah blah blah" Just flirt and see what happens!
Just be sure it's not one of those deals where you want what you can't get.
2007-03-31 20:13:33 · answer #10 · answered by No O 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋