I met this guy..I liked him...I made out with him...but I soon realized that he was only interested in one thing..sex. I came to this conclusion b/c he only called me when he wanted to come over. He didn't call just to see how I was doing or to have general conversation.So I confronted him on the issue and we haven't talked since. I felt sad @ first but I'm glad more than anything that I didn't give up sex....but i think maybe I appeared too easy which was why he thought he take me to bed so easily...i now know not to go down that road again..lol
2007-03-31 12:57:06 · 14 answers · asked by Bella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ehh..same thing happened to me when I was in high school. I was bummed, but soon realized that that guy was a loser and didn't deserve me or my time. Don't worry about him! Good for you for standing up for what you believe!!
2007-03-31 13:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by phxchik07 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not just guys, some girls, too. You need to rephrase the question, many people will use you for sex. The thing is, they are probably insecure about themselves. People like that think "Oh alright I scored!", yet they don't realize that probably for the other person, sex means go deeper into your relationshio. This is why most people get hurt in relationships, because low-lives like that guy think of sex as just "something fun". People like this will never have a true relationship, so don't even try to make a relationship. Unless, in that 1/100,000 chance you get him to change, dump him, and warn your friends.
2007-03-31 20:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by zelrio28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't women take advantage of men more often is the real question? A lot of women complain about the love lives, HEY LADIES MEN ARE ALL OVER. If you wanna relationship then tell us if you just wanna have sex then just tell us its that easy cuz must guys are fine with either and that guy wont talk to you anymore cuz you sound like a needy psycho
2007-03-31 20:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are guys who want 1) simple companionship, 2) guys who want a family life, and 3) guys who want to have the wildest night of sex ever imagined with no strings attached since the rest of their life is the way they want it.
Read into each guy for these three categories, and figure out which kind you want. All men wish they had a 1/3 hybrid, unless they are ready for that 2.
2007-03-31 20:04:19 · answer #4 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hormones.
I'm not saying it's not the guy's fault, because it is. Some guys just can't/won't rise above their basic sexual urges.
And because, honestly, it's easy to take advantage of a girl. I have never done it myself, but so many girls I know date a guy for awhile, and then he starts treating her like crap. But they stay, for whatever reason. So the guys get away with it, time and time again. This happened to my current girlfriend with her ex, and you have no idea how angry it makes me when I think about it.
-AOS
2007-03-31 20:06:34 · answer #5 · answered by Atrophy OS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys also are afraid of committment (spelling?) but can't stand to be alone and thus will take a short term liking to you and then when the sex comes that usually means more comittment, then they're off.
2007-03-31 20:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by lordguatama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some guys are interested in sex because it gives them something to brag about to their friends.
2007-03-31 20:00:58 · answer #7 · answered by chexmix30203 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ummm why do u think he was making out with you? to get to understand your personality? ummmmmmm ya u kinda brought that on urself, but a lot of guys are pervs anyway soo it sux
2007-03-31 20:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by chica</3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
most younger men comfuse lust with love --try an older 1 sweetie
2007-03-31 20:09:23 · answer #9 · answered by imneiflim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause all they ever want is sex. they think about it 20 times an hour. it's really disturbing. and I'm really sorry! some guys are just so... ugh!!!!
2007-03-31 20:00:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋