I'm not the most outgoing guy, but after I have a few beers I'm not very shy at all. However, I was just lookin for some suggestions on how to meet women and why do all my gf's want me to have a gf? Once in a while I go to a bar and talk to some girls, but I'm very observant and I know that would definately not be the place to meet a girl cuz they are talking with 10 different guys in one night. Unless its a small-town kind of bar, maybe...? The past few years girls always ask why don't you have a gf or do you have one yet? Really annoying question after awhile and I don't think they are trying to make converstation. There's this one girl I know that likes to fool around, but I'm not really into that. I don't like it and it feels wrong and I could never see myself dating her. I don't think clubs are the way to go either. My gf's ask if I'll go out with their friends which i think is a bad idea too. Just complicates our friendship if it doesn't work out...jeez...i'm one confused guy.
2007-03-31 12:54:03 · 7 answers · asked by Tim A 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, if you want a serious relationship get out of the bar.
Secondly, you are shooting yourself in the foot not meeting these women your friends think are OK. Don't make excuses about your friendship being so important that you can't solve problem #1, which is a lifetime partner. Your true friends won't hold a breakup of another friend and you against you unless you are beating her or some other weird problem comes up.
2007-03-31 12:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the liquid courage out of the equation. You are going to have to force yourself to be more outgoing. It's hard, trust me, I'm shy also, but the alternative is to sit at home alone wishing you had someone to keep you company. Since you don't like clubs - try meeting people online. It is safe in the aspect that you aren't looking at the person face to face - - - which is good if you are shy by nature. Making friends online is a great way to practice your communication skills you'll be learning how to strike up a conversation and flirt. Out of the friends you meet online, you will probably meet someone you are seriously interested in.
2007-03-31 20:06:23 · answer #2 · answered by Cambrianna S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive learned that you cant really go looking for women. Women choose men. Its about being yourself and carrying yourself with confidence. A woman knows 3 secs after she sees you if she wants you. Just be as natural as you can be because no woman wants a fake. In the clubs is not the way to go. Too many disguises in the club. Clubs are like going on chatrooms. You never know what youre getting. It just has to happen man, as natural as the seasons themselves. Improve on you, and watch the women come a runnin.
2007-03-31 19:58:48 · answer #3 · answered by atlazdrama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol..you sound like a cool guy!..the kinda ones that trat a girl right!...NEWAY lol..i think you should go for the idea of meeting potential girlfriends through friends as thats the only way to meet new people really, unless you get a new hobby or join a club or something?...
Anyway you should say to them youll get a girlfirend eventually when she decides to find you!...so basically whatveers meant to be will be! you cant ahve gf jst for teh sake of it?!
hope taht helps answer your question!
2007-03-31 20:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by trendy_gal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the library and meet women-)
2007-03-31 19:57:22 · answer #5 · answered by Katz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be your self and you will atract the right woman
2007-03-31 19:57:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely on yahoo.
2007-03-31 19:56:43 · answer #7 · answered by anastasia v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋