2007-03-31 12:07:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Someone I met for coffee once....he was blowing bubbles out of his nose.....
I politely drank the coffee and said I had to meet my daughter.......
That would definitely do it or anything close to that.
2007-03-31 12:35:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, I need to know the definition of 'dealbreaker'. I am assuming that it means if I intend to date them again. When I go out on a first date with a member of the opposite sex, I have communication with them first, either in person, over the phone, through email, depending how I met this person in the first place. I like to get to know a little about the person to make sure there is a good chance that I would have something in common to talk about on the date, and that the person would not be someone that I would be uncomfortable to be with, i.e. someone who just was released from prison for murder and rape.
After the contact (s) has been established, I like to let them set up the date to see what they feel a first date should be like. If it is the traditional 'dinner and a movie', I am not as attracted to the person as I would be if they set up the date in a more creative, conversationalist setting. After all, dating is getting to know someone better, especially at first, to see if there will be a second one. By watching a movie, you are getting to know Spiderman or Napoleon Dynamite better, not the person you are with.
If the person has set up a creative date, we have had excellent communication and similar interests , we have a fairly high comfort level, they show courtesy and respect toward me, and they seem to have a high level of interest in me, I will go on a second date with them. So, all of the above would be the 'dealbreaker' for me.
2007-03-31 19:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by quacker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you getting ready for a date tonight or something?
Okay. Pushy guys. Guys with low self-confidence. Guys who are really big jerks to me or other people. Guys who are posers.
So- be yourself, which is hopefully nice. Also, shower, wear a tiny bit of cologne, don't look like a player, and do something nice for her, even if you don't spend much. Maybe walk along the waterfront, if there's one nearby.
2007-03-31 19:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by Brittae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smoking is a dealbreaker. Ew.
2007-03-31 19:10:26 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Bad table manners and rude behavior to the restaurant employees and bragging, did it every time, I am happily married now. You can find the right person, just give it time and don't rush anything.
2007-03-31 19:13:41 · answer #5 · answered by flieder77 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i went on a blind date. i was dressed really nice and he had on a flannel shirt with a ski vest. he took me to a steak restaurant but he was a vegetarian. didn't make sense because he was very picky about what he wanted to eat. then he made me pay for my own dinner!
2007-03-31 19:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by Del M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How much time have I got?
2007-03-31 19:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She brought her 3 children....all in diapers...
I didn't know she had any.
2007-03-31 19:10:38 · answer #8 · answered by Einstein 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If all they did was talk about themselves.
2007-03-31 19:10:45 · answer #9 · answered by purple_lily76 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I DONT GET IT?
2007-03-31 19:10:06 · answer #10 · answered by A. RMZ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋