The classic image is the guy pursuing and the girl saying 'No'. Things have changed alot nowadays, so I'm wondering if you ever have the luxury of saying 'No' to a female. Or do some things never change and you take it anyway you can.;-)
2007-03-31 07:57:30 · 22 answers · asked by AmigaJoe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I do not believe in saying no. For every piece of aasss you pass up, that is one that you will never get. Life is short and if one girl wants you for herself and desires you to change that philosophy she either needs to put up or shut up and consider the requirements of commitment and her willingness to abide by the rules of engagement. The being hard to get syndrome has become a test for the feminine gender and is good for their self esteem but their self worth is only supported by being caught and done. Men do not need a whole lot of the drama that goes along with being coy or hard to get. Personally, until I find someone that is willing to roll up her sleeves and as a partner to me help build something we can be proud of in life, it is only a matter of body count. When that person arrives in my life I am sure that the first part of the war is over. The rest will be a we, us and our endeavor as a team in life not the I, me, mine doctrine.
2007-03-31 08:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by g_menagerie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i stoped having sex for the h*ll of it 5 years ago. and i'm a better man for it. women should be treated with respect ,gentleness,and kindness. i say no every time i go out. to many deseases out there for 1, and that fact that most people are so very empty in there lives and are trying to fill it with meaningless sex.
2007-03-31 15:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yup... I've turned em down before more than once.. and i have a hard time saying no usually... It had nothing to do with looks etc.. it has to do with I just have a major mistrust of girls anymore (marriage will do that to ya LOL) and i'm not about to let any chick get the upper hand...
In my defense.. i learned it from girls though LOL
2007-03-31 15:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Guys say no because they are way too tired from work or because they just gave their girl some 1 minute ago and she wants to do it again right away.
2007-03-31 15:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by Ari's Mom 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I had a guy tell me no, but that was because I was too drunk and he didn't want me to regret something in the morning. Thank God he did.
2007-03-31 15:01:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had a guy turn me down because he was afraid that I would get attatched and he wasn't ready for a relationship yet. I didn't like it but I respected his feelings.
2007-03-31 15:03:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes I have from a handful of women. I don't want what anyone can have if you know what I mean.
2007-03-31 16:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i wear my guy out and he has said no before because he's too wiped out. plus, a benefit of being a girl is you get to enjoy yourself many times. guys have to have some recovery time
;)
2007-03-31 15:03:34 · answer #8 · answered by green eyed sole 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It wasn't a fun situation. I asked her out, she told me all about her serious mental problems as part of dinner conversation, we came home and she immediately dropped drawers.....but by then I already decided not to get involved. Very uncomfortable situation.
2007-03-31 15:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
yes i have turned a girl down. there is no need to get STDs, besides i want to wait for marriage
2007-03-31 15:00:18 · answer #10 · answered by SwordDancer 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋