Can you call child sevices if your mom is forcing you to do housework when you wake up and all she gives you is a glass of orange juice to drink?(She never gives me an allowance or when I made N.J.H.S she never says anything to me and I really need a vacation!).
2007-03-31 07:54:00 · 18 answers · asked by EAT YOUR F**KIN CARROTS B*TCH!!! 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Yes, if she s too bad with u. but befor try to talk her!!!!
2007-03-31 08:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by JasBal 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Unfortunately, there is no law that says giving you responsibilities around the house is child abuse. While your mom may not be very kind, she is not really hurting you. I'm assuming the O.J. is not the only thing she allows you to have all day long? You should be allowed to have a healthy breakfast within the first few hours of waking, maybe you could ask her to allow you to have breakfast after you complete one chore? And then continue on with the rest? I realize this may seem rough, but there are children out there who are seriously abused and neglected, you should be happy for the roof over your head, and all that she does provide for you. Just know that someday, I don't know how soon, you will be able to move out on your own and do whatever you want. Just do your best to continue to do well in school, get into college and get outta there!
2007-03-31 15:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? You can call them but they won't do anything about it and I am sure after you try that crap your Mom will be much more strict on you, I would be if my daughter tried that crap. All they will do is come to your house and make sure that you have a place to sleep and food to eat. They will also interview you parents and you. Why would you want to get your Mom in trouble because you have to do chores without an allowance? When you live by yourself, you'll be doing chores without allowance also - so get over it. Just be happy you have a home and a mother that at least gives your orange juice. If you want your Mom to change, talk to her about it and tell her how you feel. Child Services will never help that matter.
2007-03-31 15:01:42 · answer #3 · answered by twisteddistance 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
have you tried getting up earlier than you otherwise do, making your own breakfast and cleaning up that mess after yourself before you start on what chores mom says is mandatory? what do you need allowance for? do you think when you move out and have to wash your own dishes and laundry and vacuum your own floor that some money fariy is just going to come along and pay you for doing your own chores? quit being a baby. if you're old enough to use this forum you're old enough to clean up the house. what's she going to do if you eat before you start chores, beat you? that's when you call child services, dummy. try getting a real job if you want spending money. even if you're too young to be in the retail job market, there's always babysitting. sure, go ahead and call them, maybe you'll end up being removed from your home and thrown in foster care because it'll end up being determined that you're a rotten kid, not that you have a rotten mother.
2007-03-31 15:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by zoë's mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you can't call child services for that - that's ridiculous. Your Mom is not doing anything harmful to you, she is just trying to get you to be responsible. Calling child services would not be a vacation for you... you'll cause a lot of trouble, hurt feelings, and an estranged relationship with your family. Child Services is here for a reason - to help those kids who truly need them, you do not. Don't do such a mean thing & call them for no good reason.
2007-03-31 15:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by tanner 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I never gave my daughter an allowance, I didn't think I needed to PAY her for my providing a roof over HER head.
And nope child services would do nothing in your case, except tell you to get your butt out of bed, do your chores and make your own breakfast, you're old enough.
2007-03-31 15:07:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be kidding. You should not have to be forced to do housework, you should be doing it on your own. You are also old enough to make your own breakfast. If she is not emotionally or physically abusive, you are barking up the wrong tree.
2007-04-02 13:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to be rude, but get a grip! I had many chores to do as a teen. You can't call Children's Services just because you don't get your way. Life only gets more difficult as you get older-get ready to do plenty of things you may not like doing, but have to do.
Do what you need to do, and for God's sake, make your own breakfast!
2007-03-31 15:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by Lori C 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
don't ya think your being a bit too dramatic.. if your hungry just tell her.. i am sure she will give fix you food.
As far as chores.. i think its OK for kids to help around the house. it teaches responsibility. Maybe talk to her and see if you can do chores after school instead.
My little girl is 4 and cleans her own room.
2007-03-31 15:00:51 · answer #9 · answered by ♥cutemamma♥ 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
no now if shes beating you to make you clean-up, and is not feeding you at all,or is locking the ref. so that you can not eat then you can call them and as for praise or incour. some mothers dont do it because maybe her mother didnt give her any, we learn what we see, but i hope this doesnt make you bitter and you then turn around and do the same to your kids, there is a book called the child called it please go to the library and find it i forgot the aurthors name David something but its about his life,please read it you might feel better about your mother. ( a boy called it)
2007-03-31 15:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
as far as your mother making you do your home work she is doing what is best for you there, and as for the allowance maybe she doesn't have the money to spare. i don't know your life style . and as for orange juice that's a good thing. i would call children services if i seen your Benin abused by one of your parents. like beating or sex acts
2007-03-31 15:02:37 · answer #11 · answered by OHIO_MOM 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋