My parents are constantly having like these get together thingys where there clients and friends come over and I am constantly having to meet all of these people and in everyperson that has a son around my age they always say you'd be perfect for my son, we should arrange a date. every time I say umm maybe just because every once in a while someone very important to my parents business will ask and I don't want to offend them and lose their business, do you think its ok for my parents to be signing me up for these types of things and giving them my picture?
2007-03-31 07:40:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
only if you want to, if you dont want to, then dont bother. dont d
o it to please his parents or yours? and try to be aware of wha
t you maybe getting yourself into wit h these no good for nothi
ng guys. who just want a girl or woman, for what you have bet
ween your legs.and if you get pregnant by him, do you think th
at he is going to willfully and freely, stand by you and yall baby,
and be the man and daddy that he should and want to be? thi
ngs like that only happens in story books and fairy tales, not in
this real world that we live in, esspecially not today?
2007-03-31 07:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Quincey, if you don't like the idea of them telling you always then you could politely refuse sometimes.
Don't always give in. Sometimes you could make excuses and at other times you could go if you find the boy interesting.
Being host! yes you are expected to show courtesy but then maybe that boy is also here because his parents have told him that he has somebody his age in the host's home.
Give it a consideration, stay at home during get together, if you like the boy as a friend or would like to have friendship with. Go to your friends home during the party if you really don't want to.
2007-03-31 14:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by sanjay 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell them...you prefer going out with boys that ask you out
because they find you attractive, not because their parents
tell them to..
Clue your own parents in that your not part of their business plan give aways.
2007-03-31 14:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it makes you uncomfortable, then do not do it. Sure these people are important to your parents and their business, but I'm sure you're more important to them than that. Try and talk to your parents about it and make sure they understand your point of view. I'm sure they will understand.
Good luck, hun.
2007-03-31 14:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by Nada Awad 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no. it is absolutely not alright. god, that is practically medievil.
it's even worse b/c it is with buisness clients. tell your parents you won't do it anymore and when the next one says something just tell them you make it a practice to never to go on blind dates or you don't think it's appropriate to mix buisness with pleasure.
2007-03-31 14:49:54 · answer #5 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you like the boys than don't worry about it but if you don't let your mom know nicely.
2007-03-31 14:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by jo-jo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋