My husband and I have a 2 year old daughter. We have kind of lost our sex life. We want to have *** but I am afraid to do it with our daughter around. What do you suggest?
2007-03-31 07:16:28 · 15 answers · asked by kelly b 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
1) Get a babysitter.
2) Move into a bigger house with thick walls.
3) spend less time on the computer. (maybe let the two year old play games on it)
2007-03-31 07:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by dude 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Your daughter is not going anywhere, so unless you and your hubby plan on not ever having sex again, you should try to set up a time late at night or early in the morning. That way she is asleep. Now if you have a problem with her coming in your room in the middle of the night, than I would suggest early in the morning. Just figure out a time when your daughter is sleep and you know she is not going to get up for a couple of hours and do it.
2007-04-01 03:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by JCaton 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Night time when shes a sleep. Lock the door so she cant hear u. Buy some music and put it on in her room when ur doing it. But dont make u hear it. U can take a showere 2gether. Or if your bathroom is big get naked both of u, then jum in his arms and he can bring u in the bed.
2007-03-31 14:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by mad SWeetZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember how you got her. You need to remember you can be a woman and a mommy. Cause a really good mommy is a woman. And if you never have sex than you need to talk to you dr about your sex drive. And just do it and eventually you will get your groove back. Lack of sex drive can be signs of serious problems. My hubby and i were going at it and my daughter told me to be quiet cause i woke her up. LOL She didn't know what we were doing.
2007-03-31 07:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by littledueceb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does she sleep in a crib? Do you co-sleep? Does she take naps? Go to bed before you?
My best suggestion is to have a date night and leave her with someone you trust, go to dinner, come back home and take your time making love. My 2 year old was very clingy and that was something we did to get assured privacy.
Hope that helps! Have a good time!
2007-03-31 07:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by wendysorangeblossoms 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry honey but she is going to be around for the next 18-20 years lol....you have to continue to have sex with your hubby....wait until she is sleeping or set her up with a movie and a snack and get in a "quickie" but dont deprive your love life that is what keeps a husband and wife going you have to love each other in order to make a blissfull life for your baby girl.....trust me i have four children under age 10 and me and my husband have been happy for 11 years of marriage now
2007-03-31 08:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by Erika 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make time to have sex when your daughter is out. I know people who make the time to have sex when their child/children are out with friends, at their grandparents or at daycare. If the above doesn't work for you try making time for sex when your little is asleep.
2007-03-31 07:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by Addison W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter is going to be around -more often than not- for the next 16 years or longer. Really you are just going to have to learn to accept that she is there.
All parents have sex when their kids are home.
2007-03-31 07:21:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Spice it back up quick. My hubby and I have waited until she watches a movie and we sneak in the bathroom. Of course, when she sleeps, we play. Don't let your sex life go dead...it will start to hurt other areas of your relationship.
2007-03-31 07:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by Silver B 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When she is a sleep you could try, put the tv on so she doesn't hear you. Lock your door just while you are having sex, and unlock when you are done. Try having a shower together. Best of luck.
2007-03-31 07:23:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋